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Previously on Everwood…

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It’s from Juilliard.

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It’s my evaluation from
the summer program.

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Basically I failed.

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I mean I know what you’re going through,

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my report card last year was terrible.

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It’s not a report card, Amy.

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This is my entire life – my whole plan
an-and it’s falling apart.

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Andy Brown, I would like you
to meet my husband, John.

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I know all the treatments, Andy.
All the drugs.

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Five years can make a big difference.

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Just give me one month.

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I’m scared.

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Tell us about yourself
in such a way

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that we will have a good sense 
of who you are.

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500 words.

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I wish you would’ve asked me
that two years ago,

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I could’ve told you exactly
who I was, who I’d be.

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Two years ago I knew it all
and the thing is I was right.

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How far is that from Juilliard?

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What, NYU? It’s like 50 blocks.

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You can walk it with a good pair of shoes.

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That’s not bad, what else you got?

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Sarah Lawrence.
It’s in Bronxville.

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It’s about 40 minutes outside
of the city by train,

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but apparently they are very
tattoo-friendly,

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so that’s good.

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Is this too much?

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I told you that I was
only applying to schools

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that were close to your conservatories

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and now you’re actually
hearing me and...

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you’re actually freaking out.

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No, I was just thinking
that 40 minutes is pretty far.

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And now I like you again.

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Well, think about it, end of the year
all the other couples

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are going to be freaking out about
the long distance thing

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and we’ll be set.

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Exactly and it’s not like New York

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and Boston don’t have
the best schools anyways.

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It’s like you’re a genius sometimes.

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I know. I could do 
journalism at Columbia,

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NYU has the best theater,

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Tufts has the best pre-med.

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Ephram Brown?

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The Guidance Counselor’s office
asked me to call you down.

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What for?

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Hey,

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Chris Templeman. I’m a
recruiter from Colorado A&M.

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Well, I hate to tell you, but I, uh,
don’t really play any sports.

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They don’t even let me go to games.

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I’m with our Music department.

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We try to keep an eye out
for the local talent,

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like the sports guys do.

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I hear that you’re applying to schools now.

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Let me guess: uh, Juilliard, Berklee
College of Music and …?

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That’s it.

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Guess you’re sleeping well.

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No, I don’t mean to be, uh,

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 y’know, I mean it’s, very 
cool just to be asked.

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Uh, but, uh, I’m-I’m pretty set
on going to Juilliard.

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It’s kinda the place to be.

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Don’t be so sure.
Take it from me.

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You went to Juilliard?

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Class of ’81.

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Wow.

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Think of it this way:

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You go there, you come out knowing

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a lot about actually playing of piano.

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And that’s it.

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You come out of our program and
you have top-notch technical training.

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And that’s worth something out
there in the job world, trust me.

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Look, I appreciate all this,
but I’m pretty set with my plan.

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You’re seventeen,

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I don’t know how you can be expected to know

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how you’re gonna fee
l ten years from now.

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Or thirty.

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I mean, you’re ready to say

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that this is what you want
to do for the rest of your life?

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It never hurts to explore your options.

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Talk it over with your parents.

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If you feel like coming down,

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I’ll get you on the tour. 
Think about it.

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Plans are like candy to the Fates.

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The only thing you could
ever be sure of is,

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nothing ever goes
the way you imagined.

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I should probably be
used to that by now.

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"Shoot the Moon"

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What are you doing
and why are you still here?

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One answer for both questions.

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I’m fixing you breakfast.

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Waffles, muffins, brownies, too.

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Though technically that’s more
dessert than breakfast,

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but who's gonna arrest me?

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Don’t mean to be ungrateful but

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shouldn’t you be driving a bus
load of screaming kids to school?

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Not today.

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What’s the matter?
Are you sick?

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Even better, I quit.

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You what?

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I told ‘em, I want to retire,
they said okay.

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No more bus, no more driver. I’m done.

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These are waffles of celebration.

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I’m gonna open some champagne.

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You keep that cork where it is.

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Since when do we make life decisions
around here without a consult?

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It was spur of the moment.
I thought it; I said it.

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They pulled out the papers.

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But I gotta tell ya, 
I never slept better.

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And that’s the end of it?

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Be happy for me, Edna, have a waffle?

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You eat it.

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Oh, come on, Edna.

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Sorry, bucko, some of us
still got a job to get to.

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Oh, please, don’t mean, you didn’t
read all of this just for us.

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Oh, you need to get out more.

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-Maybe join Netflix.
-Are you kidding?

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Research is half the fun of the job.

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Now I can say cognitive
neurorehabilitation at parties.

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You just made my guest list.

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Actually...

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I’m amazed at the depth of
research into stroke recovery

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especially with patients with
long term aphasia like your husband.

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Has anyone ever mentioned
music therapy to you before?

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I don’t think so.

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Well, if you’re willing,
I would like to give it a try.

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I want to build a structured
music plan in your home.

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Music plan?

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And it’s basically 
what it sounds like.

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We load up your 50 CD changer,

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then we keep the music
playing at regular intervals.

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And from what I understand,
the first priority is 

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consistent stimulation
and apparently music is the best kind.

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Uh, Schubert, Hyden, 
no Skynrd, huh?

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Uh, uh.

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And you think this will help? 

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Yes, I really do.

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You know how, uh,

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overeager parents are always
playing Mozart for their babies?

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The crazy ones.

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Yes, it’s the same
 principles actually.

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We have found out that
the human brain

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 is much more malleable
than we ever thought it was.

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Connections form and 
strengthen constantly

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in response to environment.

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Now, the more stimulated
the environment…

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The more the connections.

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Hopefully. At least it’s a start.

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I’ve had starts before.

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I know you have.
I know you have.

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Your husband’s been
nonresponsive for 5 years

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and I know how hard 
it must be for you

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to think about treatment 
at this point,

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but I have to tell you that
I wouldn’t put this out to you

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if I didn’t think that this was a way in.

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Worst thing that could happen
is you load up your CD collection.

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Come on, what do you say?

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Why do I get the feeling

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that you’re gonna keep
asking me until I say yes?

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Because you are getting to know me.

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Amy, would you come here please?

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Yeah?

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Whoa.

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Amy Abbott,

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allow me to be the first
to introduce you to –

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your future.

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Suffering from application anxiety,
overwhelmed by the options.

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Well, fret no more.

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Because we answer
 all questions tonight.

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What? What did you do?

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Oh, only sent away for
every piece of material

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available on the top 50
universities in the nation.

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Applications.
Promotional videos.

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Articles. Reviews.

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Everything you ever wanted
to know about schools but

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you were afraid
to order online.

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I have Kaplan’s. 
I have Barron’s.

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I even have the Hillel Guide to Jewish
Life on Campus for good measure.

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Dim sung has been ordered,

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so in a few hours
I shall be dumpling stuffed

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and you will have narrowed
all this down to your top ten.

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We shall begin with the, uh,

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shameful Number 50, Penn State,
and work all the way up to...

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Princeton.

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Dad, this is great. Really,
I mean I love the hats.

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All 50 of them. But, um,

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I already know where I want to apply.

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You do?

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Kinda, yeah.

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Well, I was rather hoping we could
make those decisions together.

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I’m sorry. I did the research
at school like a month ago.

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I already have my list down. Um…

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NYU

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Columbia,

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Amherst, Wellesley, 
Sarah Lawrence,

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Barnard, Tufts, and

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Harvard.

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So that you don’t start
 skipping church?

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And I’m good.

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Is that all?

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Its 8 schools.

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It’s not if you can’t afford a 9th.

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Say a school with 
remarkable prestige,

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consistently ranked  in the 
top 3 by U.S. News, such as…

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Princeton, perhaps.
Or-or, or how ‘bout…

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Princeton.

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Dad, I know you’ve
always had a thing for them.

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It’s just I don’t see myself there.

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I mean eating clubs,
what’s that about?

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Come now, this was 
always your dream school.

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Honey, I have 
baby pictures of you

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in a little orange sweatshirt.

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Can’t you just fill out
the application for good measure?

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It’s one more I don’t have to write,
but, uh, this is great, Dad.

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Honestly, you saved me
like a week of downloading.

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So thank you.

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I’ll start tonight.

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Okay, we’re down to A Cinderella Story...

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“PPPowderpuff Girls” and
“SSSaving Private Ryan. ”

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I like to mix it up.

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Okay, now walk me through
the Powderpuff Girls again.

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I’m gonna go practice.

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Oh, FYI, I’m ditching 
school tomorrow.

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Can I ditch too?

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Only if you get a job.

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It’s a school thing. I’m gonna
go down to Colorado A&M.

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They’ve got this walking tour,
thought I might check it out.

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Colorado? Why? For Amy?

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Uh, no, for me. I figured
I might put in an application.

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Wa-Wait a minute, 
when did this happen?

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Today. Why you think it’s weird?

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Do you?

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No.

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Well, neither do I. 
I’m just surprised.

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We talked about all this last year

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there was yelling and 
then there was hugging

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We decided on the conservatories

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– Juilliard. We had a plan.

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Yeah, well, it doesn’t mean I can’t look.

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Colorado’s got a huge
 music department,

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besides if I go there,

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I can take something 
other than piano

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and anyway it’s just a tour.

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You know what, you’re right.
We’ll have a great time.

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No, not we. You’re not coming.

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Come on, it’s just a walking tour.
I’ll walk with you.

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See what they have to offer.
I’ll clear my schedule.

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Fine.

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Great. You drive, I’ll bring
the doughnuts.

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Low on popcorn.

250
00:11:22,083 --> 00:11:25,307
You have no learning curve.

251
00:11:34,137 --> 00:11:37,166
Stand back Mama Bear,
Papa’s gonna flambé.

252
00:11:37,166 --> 00:11:38,505
Ooh, what is it this time?

253
00:11:38,540 --> 00:11:39,623
Bananas Foster.

254
00:11:39,658 --> 00:11:41,936
Retirement breakfast part two,

255
00:11:41,971 --> 00:11:44,472
if I can just keep from
over-caramelizing the sugar,

256
00:11:44,472 --> 00:11:46,411
which really just means burn.

257
00:11:46,411 --> 00:11:47,942
Love the Food Channel.

258
00:11:48,703 --> 00:11:51,975
Too bad the bananas aren’t
the only thing fired around here.

259
00:11:53,248 --> 00:11:54,904
How did you find out?

260
00:11:55,263 --> 00:11:56,231
It’s a small town.

261
00:11:56,231 --> 00:11:58,805
Why didn’t you tell me 
that you were canned?

262
00:11:58,805 --> 00:12:00,423
Because I didn’t want to get into it with you.

263
00:12:01,265 --> 00:12:03,642
They did their thing
 about cut backs

264
00:12:03,642 --> 00:12:05,709
and me being so 
close to retirement

265
00:12:05,744 --> 00:12:08,395
and I-I just didn’t want you
going off half-cocked.

266
00:12:08,395 --> 00:12:10,508
THOSE BASTARDS FIRED
YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR AGE.

267
00:12:10,508 --> 00:12:12,875
Like that. ‘Causing a ruckus.

268
00:12:12,910 --> 00:12:15,905
YOU BET I’M CAUSING A RUCKUS.
MORE THAN THAT A FREAKUS.

269
00:12:15,940 --> 00:12:17,697
AND THEN I’M JUST GONNA
KICK SOME ASS.

270
00:12:17,697 --> 00:12:18,541
No you won’t.

271
00:12:18,576 --> 00:12:21,897
Now I’m not a fan of their reasons
but I don’t need to fight it either.

272
00:12:21,897 --> 00:12:23,868
So you’re just gonna let them
put you out to pasture.

273
00:12:23,868 --> 00:12:26,296
No. No. I may be done
with the job but I’m not done.

274
00:12:26,296 --> 00:12:29,224
I’ve got a postcard
 in my head, Edna,

275
00:12:29,673 --> 00:12:31,185
I want to take you there.

276
00:12:31,583 --> 00:12:33,330
I just started a new job.

277
00:12:33,365 --> 00:12:36,317
And Doc Hartman needs you,
but he won’t forever.

278
00:12:36,317 --> 00:12:39,675
Help him set up and
then we’ll skip town.

279
00:12:40,856 --> 00:12:43,751
I’m ready for Phase Three
of my life and so are you.

280
00:12:43,751 --> 00:12:47,001
Think of all we could do;
all we could see;

281
00:12:47,690 --> 00:12:50,366
all the places we could make love.

282
00:12:50,401 --> 00:12:52,581
No fair, talking all romantic.

283
00:12:53,131 --> 00:12:54,884
That’s what I do.

284
00:12:55,079 --> 00:12:57,974
Well, do we have to wait until
Phase Three to get some practice in?

285
00:12:58,009 --> 00:12:59,655
Don’t you have to go to work?

286
00:13:00,735 --> 00:13:04,012
He can answer his own
phone for an hour.

287
00:13:08,016 --> 00:13:10,813
Try to keep up, ‘cause
this might take a while.

288
00:13:12,536 --> 00:13:17,368
Okay, now, uh, on your-left-my-right,
is Goodwin Hall,

289
00:13:17,368 --> 00:13:20,683
which is the largest of 
the frosh dorms. Now...

290
00:13:20,683 --> 00:13:25,078
... it is all one-room-triples
but they do have in-room cable

291
00:13:25,078 --> 00:13:28,441
so I would definitely put
this down as my preference.

292
00:13:28,441 --> 00:13:30,077
Dorms look okay.

293
00:13:30,112 --> 00:13:32,931
Yeah, nice refugee camp vibe.

294
00:13:34,082 --> 00:13:36,877
-Okay, folks, right this way please.
-Howdy.

295
00:13:36,877 --> 00:13:38,533
 Can we go now?
I am starving.

296
00:13:38,533 --> 00:13:40,772
We haven’t seen the departments yet.

297
00:13:40,807 --> 00:13:43,906
They’re big and brown and blocky like
every other building here -

298
00:13:43,906 --> 00:13:46,526
- it’s like they built this place
with an endowment from Lego.

299
00:13:47,091 --> 00:13:48,129
Let’s go get a blintz.

300
00:13:48,129 --> 00:13:50,549
So this is Walker Plaza.

301
00:13:50,549 --> 00:13:54,000
Okay now every year
the Seniors gather here.

302
00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,700
They wrap themselves from
head to toe in toilet paper

303
00:13:56,700 --> 00:14:01,087
and they do this kind of
Mummy Walk around campus,

304
00:14:02,012 --> 00:14:05,466
it’s just really totally hysterical.

305
00:14:06,662 --> 00:14:09,316
I will give you a thousand dollars
if you tell me you’re kidding.

306
00:14:10,094 --> 00:14:11,366
Could you be quiet please?

307
00:14:11,366 --> 00:14:14,295
I would if this wasn’t so BORING.

308
00:14:15,893 --> 00:14:16,961
Don’t mind my father.

309
00:14:16,961 --> 00:14:19,428
He had a stroke recently. 
Very sad.

310
00:14:22,609 --> 00:14:23,481
Edna?

311
00:14:23,516 --> 00:14:24,986
I’m here, Boss. 
Sorry about the late,

312
00:14:24,986 --> 00:14:26,237
how’s the morning going?

313
00:14:26,272 --> 00:14:29,134
My morning was ass, Edna.
Where the hell were you?

314
00:14:29,417 --> 00:14:31,310
I had something at home
needed dealing with.

315
00:14:31,310 --> 00:14:34,084
So we-we open at 9.
Patients came in at 9.

316
00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,462
When I worked at Cedars
for an awfully long time,

317
00:14:36,462 --> 00:14:38,454
and the rule was you come in
when your shift begins -

318
00:14:38,454 --> 00:14:39,809
rain, shine, problems at home,

319
00:14:39,809 --> 00:14:41,203
and I’ve been trying
to reach you all morning.

320
00:14:41,203 --> 00:14:42,897
How can you still not have a cell?

321
00:14:42,932 --> 00:14:46,254
Easy up, boss, I didn’t go AWOL
on ya, I was a little late.

322
00:14:46,254 --> 00:14:47,876
You were over an hour late.

323
00:14:47,876 --> 00:14:49,816
Now I don’t know how
things worked at your last job,

324
00:14:49,816 --> 00:14:51,122
but here it’s a pretty
 simple concept.

325
00:14:51,122 --> 00:14:52,687
You show up, you do your job,

326
00:14:52,722 --> 00:14:53,950
you get your check on Thursdays

327
00:14:53,950 --> 00:14:55,604
and if you can’t handle
you just say the word.

328
00:14:56,324 --> 00:14:57,614
-You’re right.
-Good.

329
00:14:58,192 --> 00:14:59,330
What’s the word?

330
00:15:01,126 --> 00:15:01,792
What?

331
00:15:01,792 --> 00:15:02,870
How ‘bout schmuck.

332
00:15:03,422 --> 00:15:04,663
Excuse me.

333
00:15:04,698 --> 00:15:06,892
You heard me. I don’t need this.

334
00:15:06,927 --> 00:15:09,410
I’m tired of you getting by
on your dimples anyway.

335
00:15:09,410 --> 00:15:10,083
You can’t quit.

336
00:15:10,083 --> 00:15:11,851
You’re out of doctor’s
 offices to work in.

337
00:15:11,851 --> 00:15:13,943
I don’t need an office anymore.

338
00:15:13,943 --> 00:15:15,880
I’m moving to Phase Three.

339
00:15:17,267 --> 00:15:19,128
By the way, next time
you’re at the dentist,

340
00:15:19,128 --> 00:15:22,446
ease off on the bleaching,
hurts my eyes.

341
00:15:25,555 --> 00:15:28,941
Okay, so, this is our music hall.

342
00:15:28,976 --> 00:15:30,650
You got any cool
concerts coming through?

343
00:15:30,650 --> 00:15:31,593
All the time.

344
00:15:31,593 --> 00:15:35,295
Last year we had a lecture from
the guy who invented the Koosh Ball.

345
00:15:36,818 --> 00:15:38,246
Oh, good acoustics.

346
00:15:38,246 --> 00:15:41,151
Actually, yeah there’s-there’s
no gum in the hall.

347
00:15:41,151 --> 00:15:42,259
Oh, fine.

348
00:15:42,294 --> 00:15:44,674
All gone. See?

349
00:15:44,674 --> 00:15:46,850
Okay, that’s it, go wait in the car.
Tour’s over for you.

350
00:15:46,850 --> 00:15:48,513
Oh, come on, 
I want to see more.

351
00:15:48,592 --> 00:15:50,443
I heard they’ve got the fifth-largest

352
00:15:50,443 --> 00:15:52,061
microfiche collection
 in the whole country.

353
00:15:52,061 --> 00:15:57,227
Yeah, I just wanna keep the tour
moving so if anyone is tired...

354
00:15:57,227 --> 00:15:59,681
or they just maybe 
wanna stay here

355
00:15:59,681 --> 00:16:01,469
and work out some family issues,

356
00:16:01,469 --> 00:16:02,816
that’s-that’s fine.

357
00:16:04,632 --> 00:16:05,387
Thank you.

358
00:16:06,239 --> 00:16:07,281
Any time.

359
00:16:07,811 --> 00:16:08,574
Why’d you bother coming

360
00:16:08,574 --> 00:16:10,125
if you were gonna bag on
the place the entire time?

361
00:16:10,285 --> 00:16:11,425
Well, I thought I might
get a sweat shirt,

362
00:16:11,425 --> 00:16:13,130
My son gave up a promising future

363
00:16:13,130 --> 00:16:14,976
and all I got was
 an instate tuition [clases particulares].

364
00:16:14,976 --> 00:16:17,451
Come on, you’re really not gonna go here.

365
00:16:17,451 --> 00:16:18,769
Yeah, I might.

366
00:16:18,804 --> 00:16:21,541
After all you’ve worked for.
You’re gonna settle for this.

367
00:16:21,541 --> 00:16:22,517
What’s wrong with this place?

368
00:16:22,517 --> 00:16:24,288
Nothing, if you’re not trying
to get into Juilliard.

369
00:16:24,323 --> 00:16:26,391
Do you know the chances
of you’re getting accepted there?

370
00:16:26,426 --> 00:16:27,226
Yeah, better than you do.

371
00:16:27,226 --> 00:16:27,856
No, I don’t think so.

372
00:16:27,891 --> 00:16:31,444
There are 4000 kids applying
and only 30 spots for piano.

373
00:16:31,444 --> 00:16:34,624
The slightest loss of focus
and the next kid gets your spot.

374
00:16:34,624 --> 00:16:37,556
You can’t even give
yourself the option of failure.

375
00:16:37,556 --> 00:16:39,386
Well, maybe failure’s not such a bad thing.

376
00:16:39,386 --> 00:16:42,119
Piano takes up so much of my life that
I don’t have time for anything else.

377
00:16:42,119 --> 00:16:44,478
You’re not supposed to
be doing anything else.

378
00:16:44,478 --> 00:16:47,064
-You are a concert pianist.
-How do you know?

379
00:16:47,064 --> 00:16:48,394
How do I even know?

380
00:16:48,429 --> 00:16:50,111
You-You’ve been pressuring 
me for so long

381
00:16:50,111 --> 00:16:51,840
I can’t remember if piano is
 something I actually wanted

382
00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,437
or something I agreed to
 when I was 10.

383
00:16:53,437 --> 00:16:54,120
Oh, come on.

384
00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,568
You-You just want me to go
to some special school for special kids

385
00:16:56,568 --> 00:16:58,518
‘cause God forbid 
I turn out to be normal,

386
00:16:58,518 --> 00:17:00,560
instead of a magazine cover.

387
00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,103
You know what, you can
 blame me  if you want to,

388
00:17:02,103 --> 00:17:04,153
but I’m trying to keep you on track

389
00:17:04,188 --> 00:17:07,430
and all I see right now
is you getting scared.

390
00:17:08,227 --> 00:17:12,285
This is when you need to trust
your abilities and dive in -

391
00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:14,525
not look for some kind
 of escape route.

392
00:17:14,651 --> 00:17:17,359
You cannot be afraid of failure.

393
00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,927
I’m not scared of what happens
if I fail  and don’t get in.

394
00:17:20,537 --> 00:17:22,785
I’m scared of what happens if I do.

395
00:17:23,377 --> 00:17:28,805
If I got to Juilliard, then that’s it
– one thing – piano.

396
00:17:29,029 --> 00:17:31,471
I’ll be just like you right before she died.

397
00:17:33,401 --> 00:17:38,492
I mean, it took mom dying to wake you up,

398
00:17:38,492 --> 00:17:41,167
I don’t wanna have 
to lose something

399
00:17:41,167 --> 00:17:43,088
to keep myself from turning into you.

400
00:17:55,484 --> 00:17:56,875
Excellent roast, Rose.

401
00:17:56,875 --> 00:17:57,920
Well, thank you, dear.

402
00:17:59,351 --> 00:18:01,783
Also, thank you. I think.

403
00:18:02,075 --> 00:18:05,455
You know who has fine meal
programs for incoming freshman.

404
00:18:05,490 --> 00:18:08,228
Dad, I’m not going to Princeton.
Get over it.

405
00:18:09,220 --> 00:18:11,712
I just can’t see why you won’t
add one more application.

406
00:18:11,747 --> 00:18:14,055
You’ve covered all the comparable
schools in the northeast

407
00:18:14,055 --> 00:18:16,642
– Ivies included – so that
rules out reverse snobbery.

408
00:18:16,873 --> 00:18:18,449
You have something against New Jersey,

409
00:18:18,449 --> 00:18:21,703
because outside of Newark,
it’s actually quite blue-collared.

410
00:18:22,264 --> 00:18:24,421
Oh, nice, let me guess.

411
00:18:24,421 --> 00:18:25,624
Only New York and Boston.

412
00:18:27,714 --> 00:18:29,760
Well, connect the dots.
She’s staying near the hub.

413
00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:31,015
Shut up, Bright.

414
00:18:31,429 --> 00:18:32,583
What hub?

415
00:18:32,973 --> 00:18:37,590
Man, there’s a lot of good piano
schools in them cities, aren’t there?

416
00:18:38,451 --> 00:18:40,575
Oh, so then all of this –

417
00:18:41,244 --> 00:18:43,315
all this talk of researching your options,

418
00:18:43,315 --> 00:18:44,704
I got my list down,

419
00:18:44,704 --> 00:18:47,498
that was all about choosing your
schools around your boyfriend.

420
00:18:48,188 --> 00:18:50,417
Ah, you couldn’t even
add another one for Dad?

421
00:18:50,785 --> 00:18:54,908
Actually, I did. Ephram and I
are both applying to Colorado A&M

422
00:18:54,908 --> 00:18:58,581
as a safety which you know anyone
with a pulse could get in there so…

423
00:19:03,311 --> 00:19:05,522
Now that was unnecessary.

424
00:19:05,522 --> 00:19:06,534
So was he.

425
00:19:08,634 --> 00:19:09,690
Well

426
00:19:10,369 --> 00:19:13,654
this is plum absurd, not
to mention disappointing.

427
00:19:14,916 --> 00:19:17,408
No correction, I will gladly
mention disappointing.

428
00:19:17,408 --> 00:19:19,778
I cannot believe that
you’d be willing to throw away

429
00:19:19,778 --> 00:19:21,938
whole avenues for your future for a boy.

430
00:19:21,938 --> 00:19:23,262
I’m not throwing anything away.

431
00:19:23,262 --> 00:19:26,557
I’m still applying to 8 perfectly great
schools that have everything I want

432
00:19:26,557 --> 00:19:28,309
plus plenty of bumper
sticker pride for you,

433
00:19:28,309 --> 00:19:30,338
why-why does it matter
what city they’re in?

434
00:19:30,338 --> 00:19:32,974
It matters if you limit
even one of your options

435
00:19:32,974 --> 00:19:35,343
to chase after a relationship
that could end.

436
00:19:35,343 --> 00:19:36,589
What happens if you break up?

437
00:19:36,589 --> 00:19:37,731
So we break up.

438
00:19:37,731 --> 00:19:39,022
At least, I’m not left wondering.

439
00:19:39,057 --> 00:19:41,001
Oh, by then, it could be
too late to transfer.

440
00:19:41,036 --> 00:19:44,421
Dad, I’ve earned the right
to choose where I want to go.

441
00:19:44,421 --> 00:19:45,394
My grades are great,

442
00:19:45,394 --> 00:19:47,794
I rocked the SATs, what
else do you want from me?

443
00:19:47,794 --> 00:19:51,397
For you not to choose this of all
moments to revert to infancy.

444
00:19:51,432 --> 00:19:54,199
How is it infantile to know that
something’s important to me?

445
00:19:54,924 --> 00:19:56,736
It’s not like I’m going
around with Ephram

446
00:19:56,736 --> 00:19:58,184
saying that we’re gonna get married,

447
00:19:58,219 --> 00:19:59,884
which, by the way, is exactly
what you were doing

448
00:19:59,919 --> 00:20:01,094
when you were even
younger than me,

449
00:20:01,129 --> 00:20:02,617
but I know how he makes me feel

450
00:20:02,617 --> 00:20:04,710
and I know that it’s worth making
the small sacrifice 

451
00:20:04,710 --> 00:20:06,372
so that we can stay
 together, if we want.

452
00:20:06,861 --> 00:20:10,984
Oh, no. No. No. You’re not gonna
throw that at me

453
00:20:10,984 --> 00:20:12,887
and then pretend that
it’s reasonable.

454
00:20:13,138 --> 00:20:16,489
You may have forgotten but
you tried these bleary eyed romantics

455
00:20:16,489 --> 00:20:18,694
with me last year when you begged 
me to be grateful 

456
00:20:18,694 --> 00:20:20,860
for how well that
Cro-Magnon understood you

457
00:20:20,860 --> 00:20:23,372
until I had to pump his stomach
in that abandoned motel.

458
00:20:23,372 --> 00:20:25,018
This isn’t even close to the same thing.

459
00:20:25,018 --> 00:20:27,038
Of course, it is Amy.
This is what you do.

460
00:20:27,073 --> 00:20:28,867
You throw yourself into a relationship.

461
00:20:28,867 --> 00:20:31,021
You drop everything else,
toss your family aside,

462
00:20:31,021 --> 00:20:34,404
then yourself all for some
elaborate pageant in your mind.

463
00:20:34,404 --> 00:20:37,239
You’ve already changed
your goals to suit his.

464
00:20:37,239 --> 00:20:39,157
How many times
do I have to tell you, Dad?

465
00:20:39,157 --> 00:20:41,023
That is not my goal any more.

466
00:20:41,023 --> 00:20:43,444
Time to let it go maybe trust me for once.

467
00:20:43,444 --> 00:20:45,695
Look, how can I trust you
when you make decisions like this?

468
00:20:45,695 --> 00:20:46,579
Like what?

469
00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:49,330
Like have you forgotten
how easily things change?

470
00:20:49,365 --> 00:20:51,538
You think I need you to remind me.

471
00:20:53,687 --> 00:20:57,241
I found the person I wanted
to be with  and he died last year.

472
00:20:59,008 --> 00:21:01,334
Why should I lose more?

473
00:21:04,013 --> 00:21:04,933
Amy?

474
00:21:06,604 --> 00:21:11,218
I want this to work and
I’ll do whatever I can gladly.

475
00:21:11,253 --> 00:21:13,293
If that means pissing you off, Dad,

476
00:21:13,293 --> 00:21:16,787
I’m sorry, but some things are 
just more important than you.

477
00:21:29,965 --> 00:21:31,681
Round two as promised.

478
00:21:31,716 --> 00:21:32,895
You didn’t promise that.

479
00:21:32,930 --> 00:21:34,420
Well, I took the initiative.

480
00:21:34,455 --> 00:21:36,381
I found a case study
that went on about Bach,

481
00:21:36,555 --> 00:21:38,700
something about the polyrhythms
and as it turns out,

482
00:21:38,700 --> 00:21:40,830
I have a son who has
a whole classical musical collection,

483
00:21:40,830 --> 00:21:44,403
a CD burner, and a flagrant
disregard for piracy laws.

484
00:21:45,653 --> 00:21:47,752
Actually I’m glad you came. 
Come on in.

485
00:21:47,752 --> 00:21:48,819
Thanks.

486
00:21:52,578 --> 00:21:53,751
Kinda quiet, isn’t it?

487
00:21:53,786 --> 00:21:56,839
Oh, I know, Charlie is actually
doing his homework

488
00:21:56,839 --> 00:21:58,937
and I only had to remind him three times.

489
00:21:58,972 --> 00:22:00,455
No. No. I mean the music.

490
00:22:00,455 --> 00:22:02,278
It’s 6 o’clock. Shouldn’t 
you be on Hyden?

491
00:22:02,278 --> 00:22:06,654
Oh, the music plan.
 I took a break.

492
00:22:07,754 --> 00:22:09,514
Well, I hate to be 
the hall monitor here,

493
00:22:09,549 --> 00:22:11,332
but that’s really not 
the best approach.

494
00:22:11,332 --> 00:22:13,487
The-the theory is constant stimulation.

495
00:22:13,487 --> 00:22:14,790
I know. I had it on.

496
00:22:14,790 --> 00:22:17,538
I played Beethoven until I could sing
the words to Ode to Joy in German

497
00:22:17,538 --> 00:22:19,550
and I’ll get it on again if that’s
what you tell me to do,

498
00:22:19,550 --> 00:22:22,310
but first we need to talk.

499
00:22:22,310 --> 00:22:23,398
We already talked about this…

500
00:22:23,398 --> 00:22:25,929
No. No. I tried to talk to you

501
00:22:25,929 --> 00:22:27,528
and you read me more statistics.

502
00:22:28,367 --> 00:22:31,078
You’re an energetic doctor
and a reasonably funny guy,

503
00:22:31,078 --> 00:22:34,816
but you’ve got serious listening
issues so this time your plan – follow me.

504
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:39,614
You want me to trust you.

505
00:22:40,677 --> 00:22:41,512
Of course.

506
00:22:42,927 --> 00:22:44,235
I want that too.

507
00:22:45,289 --> 00:22:46,274
No, thanks.

508
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,066
The thing is

509
00:22:50,146 --> 00:22:52,248
you’re coming up with plans
to try to help John becomes

510
00:22:52,248 --> 00:22:55,395
something of himself again,
but you have no idea who that is.

511
00:22:56,189 --> 00:22:59,009
He was a guy for a long time
before he was a patient.

512
00:22:59,267 --> 00:23:01,354
Did you know he lived in
Bordeaux until he was 8

513
00:23:01,482 --> 00:23:03,241
or that he used to be a seismologist?

514
00:23:03,717 --> 00:23:04,628
No, I didn’t.

515
00:23:04,663 --> 00:23:06,298
Earthquake research at the university.

516
00:23:07,071 --> 00:23:11,099
Weird I know, but he knew more
about the front range fault line

517
00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:12,075
than anyone in the state.

518
00:23:12,075 --> 00:23:15,289
He practically invented the early
detection software for the entire region.

519
00:23:16,381 --> 00:23:17,394
That’s amazing.

520
00:23:18,281 --> 00:23:22,188
Yeah, he was amazing.

521
00:23:22,908 --> 00:23:25,590
John changed everything
from the first night I met him.

522
00:23:26,704 --> 00:23:27,956
He’s right here.

523
00:23:27,956 --> 00:23:29,426
And right now you’re the only person

524
00:23:29,426 --> 00:23:31,391
I have telling me not
to let that one go

525
00:23:31,426 --> 00:23:34,941
and that means I need you to know
who you’re trying to bring back.

526
00:23:39,424 --> 00:23:41,631
So do me a favor?

527
00:23:43,267 --> 00:23:48,458
If you are going to
start making plans for us,

528
00:23:49,981 --> 00:23:51,902
get to know him first.

529
00:23:54,688 --> 00:23:56,264
Then I’ll do whatever you say.

530
00:24:12,730 --> 00:24:17,705
When I get older, losing my hair,
many years from now /

531
00:24:18,809 --> 00:24:24,752
Will you still be sending me a Valentine,
birthday greetings, tending my roots? /

532
00:24:25,893 --> 00:24:31,239
If I'd been out 'till quarter to three,
will you lock the door?

533
00:24:31,894 --> 00:24:34,774
Will you still need me,
will you still feed me,

534
00:24:35,595 --> 00:24:36,712
When I'm sixty-four?

535
00:24:36,712 --> 00:24:37,776
You bet.

536
00:24:41,679 --> 00:24:44,908
I love you. Will you stay
with me until I’m 64?

537
00:24:44,908 --> 00:24:45,835
Yes.

538
00:24:46,576 --> 00:24:48,071
These things are impossible.

539
00:24:48,828 --> 00:24:52,254
It’s just your basic Who are you and
why do you want to come here? essay.

540
00:24:52,289 --> 00:24:53,679
Declare your intended major.

541
00:24:53,679 --> 00:24:56,333
Try Music.. Next. Hmm,

542
00:24:56,333 --> 00:24:58,831
this is actually really
fun when it’s not yours.

543
00:24:58,866 --> 00:25:01,839
Yeah, except if I go to Colorado,
then piano’s probably not a priority.

544
00:25:02,393 --> 00:25:05,560
Okay, so it’s just a safety,
check Undeclared and move on.

545
00:25:11,779 --> 00:25:12,611
What?

546
00:25:14,053 --> 00:25:15,151
Undeclared..

547
00:25:16,038 --> 00:25:18,497
I just never thought of myself
as one of the clueless before.

548
00:25:19,302 --> 00:25:21,111
What like the rest of the world?

549
00:25:21,146 --> 00:25:24,420
Some of us are highly
functioning members of society.

550
00:25:25,043 --> 00:25:27,334
Folding sweaters at mini-malls.

551
00:25:32,728 --> 00:25:33,925
What now you’re going?

552
00:25:33,925 --> 00:25:35,706
It’s called preemptive bailing.

553
00:25:35,706 --> 00:25:37,436
I’m trying to help, you’re trying
to bite my head off,

554
00:25:37,436 --> 00:25:40,088
I can see where this is going and
you do not really have time

555
00:25:40,088 --> 00:25:43,213
for a full fight cycle so call me
when you’re done.

556
00:25:47,649 --> 00:25:48,901
This was a good idea.

557
00:25:48,901 --> 00:25:50,173
I’m full of ‘em.

558
00:25:52,792 --> 00:25:55,090
We get to tackle 
the whole world now.

559
00:25:55,090 --> 00:25:58,003
I even like the sound of it 
– Phase Three.

560
00:25:58,003 --> 00:25:59,684
Well, you’ll like the
looks of it even better.

561
00:25:59,684 --> 00:26:01,563
Wait ‘til you see what I got planned.

562
00:26:02,775 --> 00:26:04,503
It all starts right here.

563
00:26:04,538 --> 00:26:06,187
Santorini. Greece.

564
00:26:06,222 --> 00:26:09,104
A villa on the Caldera with
a month-to-month lease

565
00:26:09,139 --> 00:26:10,501
– beautiful view.

566
00:26:10,536 --> 00:26:14,057
I can write all morning looking out
on the Med with no problems

567
00:26:14,057 --> 00:26:15,603
for the rest of the day
bigger than 

568
00:26:15,603 --> 00:26:18,155
whether to hit the black
 sand beach or the red.

569
00:26:18,894 --> 00:26:20,909
And what am I suppose to do there?

570
00:26:21,561 --> 00:26:24,066
Wiggle around in a bikin
and mix margaritas.

571
00:26:24,066 --> 00:26:25,812
You have something else in mind?

572
00:26:26,358 --> 00:26:28,400
Two applications for
 the Peace Corps

573
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,551
with a pit stop in Guadalajara

574
00:26:30,586 --> 00:26:32,137
with Habitat for Humanity.

575
00:26:32,172 --> 00:26:34,800
We could be getting roofs over
the homeless in a month.

576
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,220
Hold on. Hold on.
You want to build houses.

577
00:26:37,456 --> 00:26:38,414
And then we’ll help some sick kids,

578
00:26:38,414 --> 00:26:41,014
maybe take a stretch over
and see Linda in Namibia.

579
00:26:41,274 --> 00:26:44,706
That’s not really how I saw Phase Three.

580
00:26:44,741 --> 00:26:48,685
I-I saw us slowing down
not kicking it into high gear.

581
00:26:48,685 --> 00:26:52,656
Well, I can’t lay myself out to rest.
I gotta be doing things.

582
00:26:52,656 --> 00:26:55,805
Look, I’m not out to take
on the world any more, Edna.

583
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,549
I can’t be running around all the time.

584
00:26:59,344 --> 00:27:02,981
Phase Three for me –
 I gotta sit still.

585
00:27:03,743 --> 00:27:05,608
I want you to sit still with me.

586
00:27:11,736 --> 00:27:13,589
Would you at least think about it?

587
00:27:32,629 --> 00:27:35,686
AMY, THIS ISN’T GONNA BE ANOTHER ONE
OF THOSE MAKE-OUT APOLOGIES, IS IT?

588
00:27:36,035 --> 00:27:37,976
Oh, hey, Dr. Abbott. Uh,

589
00:27:38,603 --> 00:27:40,665
that wasn’t your daughter
I was talking about.

590
00:27:40,665 --> 00:27:43,069
Amy and I – we’re just
 friends. I mean…

591
00:27:43,069 --> 00:27:46,401
Uh, are you looking for my dad?

592
00:27:46,537 --> 00:27:48,247
Actually I’ve come to see you.

593
00:27:49,267 --> 00:27:50,134
Should I be scared?

594
00:27:50,445 --> 00:27:52,240
Every day of your life.

595
00:27:52,690 --> 00:27:56,100
This regards another matter.
I have a favor to ask.

596
00:28:00,845 --> 00:28:02,630
A Princeton application?

597
00:28:03,307 --> 00:28:05,888
All filled out, check signed,
correct postage.

598
00:28:06,922 --> 00:28:09,049
She only needs to write the essay,

599
00:28:09,049 --> 00:28:11,360
which she can do in her
sleep, if she wanted to.

600
00:28:11,360 --> 00:28:12,300
Which she doesn’t.

601
00:28:12,521 --> 00:28:14,112
I know she doesn’t.

602
00:28:14,871 --> 00:28:16,734
I also know that she used to.

603
00:28:17,584 --> 00:28:18,912
It used to be all that she would talk about.

604
00:28:18,912 --> 00:28:21,740
When I go to Princeton, I want
to live where Fitzgerald lived.

605
00:28:23,052 --> 00:28:24,539
At some point
 between freshman year

606
00:28:24,539 --> 00:28:27,401
and her relationship 
with you that changed.

607
00:28:28,329 --> 00:28:31,341
Well, a lot’s happened since
then – not just me.

608
00:28:31,376 --> 00:28:33,812
I only want her somewhere 
where she can explore

609
00:28:33,812 --> 00:28:36,091
every facet of her curiosity.

610
00:28:36,126 --> 00:28:38,749
Princeton excels
 in everything

611
00:28:38,749 --> 00:28:40,645
that Amy has even 
the vaguest of interest in

612
00:28:40,645 --> 00:28:43,791
– English, Women’s Studies,
Biology, Dance.

613
00:28:44,206 --> 00:28:46,274
She should have that.

614
00:28:46,309 --> 00:28:48,735
You know as well as I do,
that there’s no convincing her

615
00:28:48,735 --> 00:28:50,393
of anything that’s not
already in her head.

616
00:28:50,428 --> 00:28:53,982
I-I’ve tried. I-I’ve failed.
I still have bruises.

617
00:28:54,017 --> 00:28:55,041
I know.

618
00:28:56,641 --> 00:28:58,906
But right now, you’re 
the one she listens to.

619
00:29:00,374 --> 00:29:03,315
Didn’t used to be that way,
but now it is so here I am.

620
00:29:04,879 --> 00:29:06,964
That was her dream once

621
00:29:07,932 --> 00:29:10,740
– don’t deny her the
option of turning it down.

622
00:29:12,701 --> 00:29:14,075
I can try.

623
00:29:15,140 --> 00:29:17,875
Well, that’s more than 
I can do. Thank you.

624
00:29:19,154 --> 00:29:21,017
It’s good to hear, by the way.

625
00:29:22,152 --> 00:29:22,975
What is?

626
00:29:23,361 --> 00:29:26,998
Your playing. It is as
good as they say.

627
00:29:28,308 --> 00:29:31,096
That was an arrangement of
a Bach motet, wasn’t it?

628
00:29:31,453 --> 00:29:32,951
Well, it’s an attempt at least.

629
00:29:32,986 --> 00:29:36,823
My teacher’s got me breaking
down choral structure – he’s evil.

630
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,597
I didn’t know that
you knew music. Do you play?

631
00:29:40,958 --> 00:29:42,367
I wanted to.

632
00:29:42,750 --> 00:29:46,171
But as with surgery I was born
with the ear but not the hands.

633
00:29:46,811 --> 00:29:50,268
God has a cruel sense of humor.
Apparently I’m his favorite channel.

634
00:29:50,268 --> 00:29:52,099
I’ve been working all night
on the obbligato.

635
00:29:52,099 --> 00:29:56,298
Usually it just comes, but when I get
stuck, it could take – a while.

636
00:30:00,024 --> 00:30:00,952
Is that funny?

637
00:30:00,952 --> 00:30:02,380
No, I’m sorry.

638
00:30:03,027 --> 00:30:05,926
I-In a way, you’re so
much like your father.

639
00:30:05,926 --> 00:30:08,419
See you’ve just described
what it is to be gifted

640
00:30:08,419 --> 00:30:10,029
and you don’t even know it.

641
00:30:10,029 --> 00:30:15,273
The part that you call effortless
that would be the life’s ambition

642
00:30:15,273 --> 00:30:16,743
of the less blessed and

643
00:30:16,743 --> 00:30:18,766
-and the part where it’s actually
a bit of work –

644
00:30:19,378 --> 00:30:22,275
 that’s an argument they wouldn’t
 even be able to follow.

645
00:30:23,197 --> 00:30:24,710
Well, the experts seem to disagree.

646
00:30:24,710 --> 00:30:27,389
I’ve got paperwork and very
expensive schools to prove it.

647
00:30:27,389 --> 00:30:29,771
Well, that’s technique –

648
00:30:30,518 --> 00:30:33,596
the part that can actually be
taught and graded, improved.

649
00:30:33,996 --> 00:30:40,254
What you’ve been given, it’s more like
– the rain – simply happens.

650
00:30:40,661 --> 00:30:43,055
Nothing can alter it’s timing or course.

651
00:30:43,055 --> 00:30:46,162
You just have to dress for the occasion.

652
00:30:47,139 --> 00:30:49,991
You know, uh, there are
words to that piece.

653
00:30:49,991 --> 00:30:52,735
Bach borrowed a poem by Johann Franck,

654
00:30:52,735 --> 00:30:53,517
do you know what they mean?

655
00:30:53,517 --> 00:30:54,537
No.

656
00:30:55,409 --> 00:30:56,509
You should find out.

657
00:31:08,140 --> 00:31:08,893
Morning.

658
00:31:10,311 --> 00:31:12,002
Word to the wise, chirpy.

659
00:31:12,037 --> 00:31:14,327
I don’t know what 
flies back in LA LA Land,

660
00:31:14,327 --> 00:31:17,961
but here that temper of yours
is liable to get you nut punched.

661
00:31:17,961 --> 00:31:20,858
Now let me just get my boxes
and then I’m a Christmas card.

662
00:31:23,793 --> 00:31:24,922
My stuff is still here.

663
00:31:24,922 --> 00:31:28,221
Yeah, and your work’s not finished
either, what’s up with that?

664
00:31:28,221 --> 00:31:30,607
Where’d you put Mrs. Monihan’s chart?

665
00:31:30,642 --> 00:31:33,485
Maybe you didn’t hear the part
where I said I don’t work here anymore.

666
00:31:33,485 --> 00:31:36,065
Yeah. I saw you stamp
 your feet too.

667
00:31:36,065 --> 00:31:37,040
World class tantrum.

668
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,599
If you keep it up another 10 minutes,
it’d’ve counted as your cardio.

669
00:31:39,599 --> 00:31:41,689
If you need me to recommend
you another nurse, I can…

670
00:31:41,689 --> 00:31:43,106
No, I’m good. 
I’m not worried.

671
00:31:43,106 --> 00:31:45,342
You’re not retiring;
you don’t have it in you.

672
00:31:46,660 --> 00:31:48,096
You wanna bet?

673
00:31:53,476 --> 00:31:55,013
Dunkits and Doughnuts.

674
00:31:56,293 --> 00:31:59,481
What? You’re gonna kick back
on some beach somewhere?

675
00:31:59,643 --> 00:32:02,677
You’ll chew your nails off in a day.

676
00:32:02,677 --> 00:32:04,349
You’ll be down to finger nubs in a week.

677
00:32:04,349 --> 00:32:06,472
I’ve watched you work, Edna,

678
00:32:06,472 --> 00:32:09,050
there are people 
who go to their offices

679
00:32:09,050 --> 00:32:11,854
and do their thing and the clock hits 5
and they’re out of there

680
00:32:11,854 --> 00:32:15,317
– thinking about surf conditions
or whatever’s waiting for them on TiVo.

681
00:32:15,524 --> 00:32:18,309
The job doesn’t follow them
one step out the office door

682
00:32:20,023 --> 00:32:21,424
– you’re not that lucky.

683
00:32:28,029 --> 00:32:29,194
My bet stands.

684
00:32:32,951 --> 00:32:34,214
You’re gonna be mad at me,

685
00:32:34,249 --> 00:32:37,313
but I have one more application
to add to the list, can you handle it?

686
00:32:38,348 --> 00:32:40,177
Are you gonna get all pissy
again when filling it out?

687
00:32:40,177 --> 00:32:41,442
No, it’s for a conservatory,

688
00:32:41,442 --> 00:32:45,055
Will and I talking about upping my odds
and he-he likes this place

689
00:32:45,055 --> 00:32:48,545
– the Curtis Institute
somewhere in Jersey I think.

690
00:32:48,545 --> 00:32:50,167
You don’t sound too excited.

691
00:32:50,167 --> 00:32:53,806
Uh, it’s not A list but he knows
one of the instructors there.

692
00:32:54,219 --> 00:32:55,574
So what do you think?

693
00:32:55,574 --> 00:32:58,476
Can you add one more to the list?

694
00:32:59,150 --> 00:33:01,174
Jersey, huh?

695
00:33:01,174 --> 00:33:05,647
Guess I could apply to Princeton –
keep the Dad happy. Two birds, right?

696
00:33:05,852 --> 00:33:07,050
Whatever works.

697
00:33:11,546 --> 00:33:13,330
You are so gonna crack.

698
00:33:13,365 --> 00:33:14,956
What are you talking about?

699
00:33:14,991 --> 00:33:16,085
He talked to you.

700
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,171
Wow, smart chick. 
Major downside.

701
00:33:20,067 --> 00:33:21,416
And don’t be mad, okay?

702
00:33:22,690 --> 00:33:24,216
At him or you?

703
00:33:24,788 --> 00:33:27,837
Uh, both. Preferably me first,
if I had to choose.

704
00:33:28,383 --> 00:33:30,967
It was kinda cool, he was just trying…

705
00:33:32,649 --> 00:33:34,895
You did kind of break 
his heart on this one.

706
00:33:35,542 --> 00:33:37,835
Well, look, now you’re mad.

707
00:33:37,835 --> 00:33:39,607
Well, that depends, Ephram.

708
00:33:39,607 --> 00:33:42,150
Do you want me to apply because
my dad backed up the guilt truck

709
00:33:42,150 --> 00:33:45,871
or because you’re
worried about us?

710
00:33:47,054 --> 00:33:49,440
I- I don’t know. It’s 
a lot of pressure.

711
00:33:50,154 --> 00:33:52,164
You’ve given up things for us.

712
00:33:52,199 --> 00:33:57,251
It’s not like we don’t fight
– a lot – yesterday.

713
00:33:58,156 --> 00:33:59,978
That barely counted.

714
00:34:00,530 --> 00:34:03,159
Yeah, what if we did fight
or what if we broke up or worse,

715
00:34:03,159 --> 00:34:05,115
what if we stay together
just long enough for you

716
00:34:05,115 --> 00:34:07,392
to get stuck in some city
with nothing to do but hate me.

717
00:34:12,464 --> 00:34:13,400
Wow.

718
00:34:13,347 --> 00:34:14,536
Yeah, I know.

719
00:34:19,214 --> 00:34:20,969
You really worry about that stuff?

720
00:34:22,028 --> 00:34:25,654
One of us has to. Job was free.

721
00:34:29,026 --> 00:34:31,238
It took me a long 
time to get here, Ephram.

722
00:34:31,238 --> 00:34:33,683
You had to do 
a lot of fancy talking.

723
00:34:34,993 --> 00:34:37,509
But this is what I want.

724
00:34:38,523 --> 00:34:42,878
I wanna stay in love. 
You, me – us.

725
00:34:43,192 --> 00:34:46,731
That’s not gonna change and so
what if I’m wrong,

726
00:34:46,731 --> 00:34:48,149
it’s my mistake to make.

727
00:34:48,149 --> 00:34:49,489
You don’t get to protect me.

728
00:34:49,489 --> 00:34:51,872
I mean you can try,
but I’ll just kick your ass.

729
00:34:52,201 --> 00:34:54,682
It’s not your job. 
It’s not my dad’s job.

730
00:34:57,105 --> 00:34:59,291
I don’t need guarantees, Ephram.

731
00:35:00,015 --> 00:35:05,300
So you can worry all you want
but I’m betting on us.

732
00:35:23,971 --> 00:35:26,007
I don’t like fighting.

733
00:35:26,372 --> 00:35:27,357
Me neither.

734
00:35:27,571 --> 00:35:31,097
I don’t like compromise a lot either
, but I’ll take it over fighting.

735
00:35:31,132 --> 00:35:34,049
So here’s what I got – Costa Rica.

736
00:35:34,084 --> 00:35:37,057
They’ve got a Docs Without 
Borders outpost there

737
00:35:37,057 --> 00:35:38,819
- needs help with inoculations.

738
00:35:38,854 --> 00:35:40,960
Forty miles south of beachside

739
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,039
– I type, you can save the orphans.

740
00:35:44,508 --> 00:35:45,961
I took my job back.

741
00:35:48,681 --> 00:35:49,706
For how long?

742
00:35:50,652 --> 00:35:52,797
I’m in for the long hall.

743
00:35:54,314 --> 00:35:56,043
That’s not what we talked about.

744
00:35:56,477 --> 00:35:57,555
I know.

745
00:35:59,102 --> 00:36:03,018
I gotta work, Harper.
That’s the way I’m built.

746
00:36:03,053 --> 00:36:05,080
Then take the show on the road.

747
00:36:05,115 --> 00:36:07,568
I wish I could.

748
00:36:07,568 --> 00:36:09,603
It doesn’t work that way any more.

749
00:36:09,638 --> 00:36:12,521
I’ve done a lot of things
in my life

750
00:36:12,521 --> 00:36:15,716
– left my family,
seen a lot of places –

751
00:36:17,181 --> 00:36:19,366
but I can’t say I did it with no regrets.

752
00:36:21,953 --> 00:36:23,988
I didn’t mean for it to happen,

753
00:36:24,908 --> 00:36:29,703
but I’ve put down roots
 now and they’re here.

754
00:36:31,525 --> 00:36:34,075
I came to this town for a weekend

755
00:36:34,522 --> 00:36:37,801
and stayed five years
 longer than I intended.

756
00:36:38,218 --> 00:36:40,575
I did that for you.

757
00:36:40,576 --> 00:36:42,933
It’s been five years, Edna.

758
00:36:43,303 --> 00:36:47,717
It could be a lot more.
We’re good here – you and I.

759
00:36:47,752 --> 00:36:51,967
For now. I meant what I said.

760
00:36:52,637 --> 00:36:56,221
I told you I felt life was talking to me.

761
00:36:58,084 --> 00:37:01,656
I can try to keep my feet planted
here for as long as I can

762
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,863
but I don’t know how long that’ll be.

763
00:37:05,948 --> 00:37:08,516
What happens when time runs out?

764
00:37:15,018 --> 00:37:16,415
I’ll put this away.

765
00:37:22,329 --> 00:37:26,077
The thing is you can never tell when
everything you counted on might fall apart

766
00:37:26,410 --> 00:37:28,896
– no matter how solid the rock.

767
00:37:34,830 --> 00:37:36,221
Nice try, Harold.

768
00:37:37,279 --> 00:37:38,192
With what?

769
00:37:38,572 --> 00:37:43,117
You had him too. You tried.
He tried. Everybody tried.

770
00:37:43,916 --> 00:37:46,054
Call me the difficult one.

771
00:37:46,089 --> 00:37:48,805
As a consolation prize, I’ve decided
not to be mad at you

772
00:37:48,805 --> 00:37:50,789
for going to my boyfriend behind my back.

773
00:37:51,633 --> 00:37:53,376
I just want you to have the best.

774
00:37:53,411 --> 00:37:57,071
I know and you get major
points for good intentions,

775
00:37:57,071 --> 00:38:00,217
but your execution sucks.

776
00:38:00,905 --> 00:38:02,561
It’s only one more application.

777
00:38:02,596 --> 00:38:04,981
I know Dad.

778
00:38:05,746 --> 00:38:09,293
Time to let it go trust me,
kiddo, it’s gonna be okay.

779
00:38:12,368 --> 00:38:14,938
All right, Dad, good night.

780
00:38:17,806 --> 00:38:19,104
She didn’t budge?

781
00:38:19,491 --> 00:38:21,015
She didn’t even blink.

782
00:38:21,386 --> 00:38:22,459
She’s in love, dear.

783
00:38:22,459 --> 00:38:24,618
And how is that a comfort again?

784
00:38:25,007 --> 00:38:26,209
Try not to worry.

785
00:38:26,476 --> 00:38:29,801
I happen to know another Abbott
who didn’t apply to Princeton

786
00:38:29,801 --> 00:38:32,084
so he could be with
the girl he fell in love with.

787
00:38:32,084 --> 00:38:33,641
He turned out just fine.

788
00:38:34,776 --> 00:38:36,089
I’m going up to bed.

789
00:38:36,089 --> 00:38:39,337
Lose the pout and join me soon.

790
00:38:41,446 --> 00:38:43,250
Rocks break.

791
00:38:43,250 --> 00:38:47,593
Everything changes even when you
think you’re sure, especially…

792
00:38:48,047 --> 00:38:50,137
To be fair if I was one of the Fates

793
00:38:50,137 --> 00:38:52,797
looking down at the best laid 
plans of dumb little people,

794
00:38:53,855 --> 00:38:56,212
probably see mine and want
to mess with him too.

795
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,005
Can I bug you?

796
00:38:59,005 --> 00:39:00,406
Mission accomplished.

797
00:39:02,445 --> 00:39:05,657
I, uh, I wanted to give you this.

798
00:39:10,993 --> 00:39:14,041
The gesture implies an apology.
You can skip the rest.

799
00:39:14,076 --> 00:39:17,488
Well, humor me. I rehearsed.

800
00:39:19,549 --> 00:39:21,824
I’m sorry, I’ve been pushing you, Ephram.

801
00:39:22,339 --> 00:39:24,562
I thought I was helping you
get what you want, but

802
00:39:24,597 --> 00:39:26,903
you’re right, there’s a lot
about you that I don’t know.

803
00:39:27,579 --> 00:39:30,112
I kind of sprang the new school on you.

804
00:39:30,112 --> 00:39:32,347
Well, I could’ve rolled with it better.

805
00:39:32,983 --> 00:39:35,965
I know you’re worried, but you could
never turn into what I was, Ephram,

806
00:39:35,965 --> 00:39:38,727
you’ve got more than just me in you.

807
00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:40,880
That doesn’t mean you can’t
question the plan.

808
00:39:41,550 --> 00:39:44,204
And if at any point you feel like
you’re giving up too much,

809
00:39:44,204 --> 00:39:45,620
you tell me and we’ll change it.

810
00:39:46,190 --> 00:39:48,173
You can always go somewhere else.

811
00:39:49,933 --> 00:39:52,606
But the truth is that when
I close my eyes 

812
00:39:53,465 --> 00:39:55,262
and I think about
 you in four years,

813
00:39:55,262 --> 00:39:56,741
I see you at Juilliard.

814
00:39:56,776 --> 00:39:58,165
I know you do.

815
00:39:58,584 --> 00:40:01,548
I appreciate the crazy 
dad cheering section.

816
00:40:01,548 --> 00:40:03,954
It’s just I get so 
stressed out sometimes,

817
00:40:03,954 --> 00:40:05,799
I forget why I’m even doing this.

818
00:40:07,939 --> 00:40:09,150
The truth is on my end,

819
00:40:09,150 --> 00:40:11,486
I don’t know where I see
myself in four years.

820
00:40:12,313 --> 00:40:13,247
Well, then try it.

821
00:40:14,341 --> 00:40:15,194
What?

822
00:40:15,732 --> 00:40:17,408
Close your eyes. Try to visualize it.

823
00:40:17,937 --> 00:40:19,349
-Yeah.
-What’s the matter too cool..

824
00:40:19,349 --> 00:40:20,687
...to visualize with your father?

825
00:40:23,700 --> 00:40:28,539
Come on, picture it.
Close your eyes.

826
00:40:33,261 --> 00:40:39,770
You graduate. You move ahead.
You’re happy.

827
00:40:41,271 --> 00:40:43,323
What are you doing?
Where are you?

828
00:40:47,517 --> 00:40:48,500
I’m playing...

829
00:40:50,288 --> 00:40:52,033
... in Juilliard.

830
00:40:53,157 --> 00:40:56,724
And that’s what we’ll go for.
That’s where we’ll get you.

831
00:41:03,736 --> 00:41:05,559
I should get back to this.

832
00:41:08,157 --> 00:41:10,040
Keeping all of your options open.

833
00:41:11,348 --> 00:41:13,740
Ah, something like that.

834
00:41:19,223 --> 00:41:21,324
You want to know about me in 500 words,

835
00:41:21,324 --> 00:41:24,227
I get scared sometimes
and disappointed.

836
00:41:24,528 --> 00:41:26,847
I have doubts and
I love getting my way.

837
00:41:26,847 --> 00:41:29,413
I don’t like change, but 
I know it’s good for me

838
00:41:29,413 --> 00:41:32,442
and inevitable so
I welcome it as best I can.

839
00:41:34,959 --> 00:41:38,268
There’s a poem by Johann Franck
that says it better than I will.

840
00:41:38,737 --> 00:41:41,064
Defy the old dragon, defy fear.

841
00:41:42,236 --> 00:41:46,840
The world may rage and quake but
I shall remain singing in perfect peace.

842
00:41:47,858 --> 00:41:52,540
Yeah, things happen – things
you don’t expect – or want or like.

843
00:41:52,540 --> 00:41:55,868
The world rages and you become someone
you didn’t know you’d ever be.

844
00:41:58,101 --> 00:42:02,884
And there you are, in your clothes,
in your life, this is my future, this is me.

845
00:42:05,229 --> 00:42:07,896
This is me ‘cause I want things
I never thought I would.

846
00:42:07,896 --> 00:42:10,926
I want the possibilities a school
like Princeton can afford.

847
00:42:14,797 --> 00:42:17,974
A place to grow, to meet new people,

848
00:42:17,974 --> 00:42:21,389
a place to be surprised when life turns out
to be nothing like I imagined.

849
00:42:29,088 --> 00:42:35,236
You have to be grateful for it
– in perfect peace.

850
00:42:46,196 --> 00:42:48,774
Script: Rosemary
Srt: juanfran