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- You're off today.
- Aren't you paid to be more precise?
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- Sorry kid it's all I got.
- How was my tempo?
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It's good.
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- Finger independence?
- On the money.
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- Strength? Agility? Forearm rotation?
- It's not your technique.
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You're not letting yourself go.
You're letting the piece lead you.
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Would you let a car drive you
or would you drive the car?
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Neither. I'm 15.
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Let's try another one.
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Schubert's "lmpromptu No. 3
Opus 90." I don't know that one.
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That's cool. You now have
another 10 seconds to look at it.
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- Why do I only have...?
- Ten nine eight...
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...seven six...
- Dude you're freaking me out.
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...five four three two one.
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Good. Now play the first page.
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- I can't.
- Yes you can Ephram.
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You're worried about getting it right
and I don't want you to.
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Now close your eyes see the page
in your mind and play what you see.
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Whatever you say Obi-Wan.
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I'm trying to talk to you.
I'm trying to tell you...
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You're never home.
And when you are you don't notice me.
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- You don't notice any of us.
- The kids are home. They can hear us.
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I don't register on your radar screen.
You tell me what I'm supposed to do.
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- What do you want from me?!
- I don't wanna live like this anymore.
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- I just can't.
- Then leave me damn it!
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Take the kids and leave!
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I don't wanna leave you!
You know that!
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I just want you to talk to me Andy!
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Andy please come out.
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You played the whole thing.
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I was wrong. I do know this one.
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You have the perfect lips.
They're so soft and kissable.
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I do?
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Yeah but you have the best eyes.
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No way. You have perfectly colored eyes.
They match your face.
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- My eyes match my face?
- You know what I mean.
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God I can't believe
you were gone for 10 days.
38
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Did I mention how glad I am
that you're back?
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Not really.
40
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Oh my God they're back.
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Yeah well...
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- Hi.
- Hello.
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How was the movie?
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Popcorn was stale.
We got stuck in the third row.
45
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Some dimwit spilled a gallon
of Mountain Dew all over...
46
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Actually it was very entertaining.
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Only I wish someone would tell that
Renée Zellweger to stop losing weight.
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- And what have you two been watching?
- Well just you know flipping.
49
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- Yeah there's really nothing on.
- Nothing good.
50
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I mean nothing good.
51
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It's about time to be heading home.
It's getting pretty late.
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- My dad's gonna pick me up any minute.
- Oh all right.
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You kids enjoy your commercials.
We'll head for bed.
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Or perhaps we'll join you. I hear
there's a wonderful new Gap campaign.
55
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Maybe if we keep flipping
we can catch it.
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Come on Harold.
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- Good night.
- Good night.
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Night.
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I think we pulled it off.
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- Parents are so clueless.
- Yep.
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- You okay?
- Yeah. I'm just a little...
62
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I think I'm gonna use your bathroom
for a second.
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- Do you want me to get you anything?
- That's okay. I'll be right back.
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When do you leave again?
65
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End of the week. We'll only be
in New York a couple days.
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- There shouldn't be much mail.
- Oh no it's no problem.
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This will probably make me sound stupid
but I have no idea what an unveiling is.
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An unveiling is a Jewish custom.
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A year after someone passes away...
70
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...family and friends gather around
the gravesite to see the headstone get...
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...unveiled.
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In Jewish beliefs
when someone dies...
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...the immediate family says Kaddish
that's the mourner's prayer...
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...three times a day every day
for an entire year.
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After that year is up they believe
that the soul has reached heaven.
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So when you unveil the stone...
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...it signifies that person is
now resting in peace.
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Wow. I'm impressed Andy.
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- Did you minor in religious studies?
- He was on the Internet all day.
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- Where are you going?
- Eating in my room if that's okay.
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Sure.
82
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- He's having a rough time with this trip?
- Maybe.
83
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Feels like something else though.
He's barely looked at me all week.
84
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It's like he slipped back into Ephram
five months ago.
85
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- That Ephram was so unpleasant.
- Go easy on him.
86
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- I'm sure he'll be better once this is over.
- Let's hope.
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- Dad?
- Yes honey?
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What do you wear to an unveiling?
89
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You have to dunk the cookies Dad.
That's the whole point.
90
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- Wanna share?
- No thanks.
91
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You do realize that's just
battery acid for your insides...
92
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...eating away at your intestines?
93
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So things seem to be working out
with you and Colin?
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Definitely.
95
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- So glad I asked.
- It just feels like us again you know?
96
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I mean the way I remembered us
only better.
97
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More adult or something.
98
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Before I thought I was in love with him
but that was just me pretending.
99
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But now I feel it and he feels it.
And I know he feels it...
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- Amy.
- Yeah?
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Perhaps we should continue
this conversation when you're 30.
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Okay.
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- Good night Dad.
- Good night.
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Dad?
105
00:09:01,753 --> 00:09:05,211
- When's he gonna be well again?
- What do you mean honey?
106
00:09:05,857 --> 00:09:09,020
Colin's doing great
better than anyone thought he would...
107
00:09:09,194 --> 00:09:13,221
...but I just hate to see him go through
the side effects of the surgery.
108
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What side effects?
109
00:09:15,066 --> 00:09:19,867
Like the normal stuff throwing up...
Not like he does that a lot but...
110
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I'm sure it's the stress of everything.
I wouldn't worry about it.
111
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Dr. Brown and the Denver team
they're watching him like a hawk.
112
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God I feel so much better now.
I think I'll actually sleep.
113
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With all that caffeine in your system
good luck.
114
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Please. This is like nothing.
115
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Hey.
116
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The point of knocking is totally eliminated
when you don't wait for a response.
117
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I just wanted to say that I know
this week is gonna be very hard for you.
118
00:10:02,914 --> 00:10:08,614
It's gonna be hard for all of us.
And it's okay to be in a bad mood.
119
00:10:11,523 --> 00:10:13,184
Okay then.
120
00:10:13,825 --> 00:10:17,818
I thought since we all screwed up on
this three-times-a-day Kaddish thing...
121
00:10:17,996 --> 00:10:22,695
...I thought maybe you might want
to do the Kaddish at the ceremony.
122
00:10:23,334 --> 00:10:25,962
It might be nice. What do you think?
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00:10:28,773 --> 00:10:33,369
If you don't know it I could find it
on the Net and print it up for you.
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You don't have to do it
if you don't want to...
125
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...but since you're the only one of us
who can speak Hebrew I thought...
126
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I'll do it.
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You will?
128
00:10:44,355 --> 00:10:46,721
- Great.
- Good night.
129
00:10:49,227 --> 00:10:50,819
Good night Ephram.
130
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What now?
131
00:11:01,839 --> 00:11:05,798
- What's with the 'tude dude?
- Sorry. I thought you were him.
132
00:11:05,977 --> 00:11:08,468
And please refrain
from using the word "dude."
133
00:11:08,646 --> 00:11:12,377
- Should I put these away for you?
- I got it.
134
00:11:15,486 --> 00:11:18,182
What you really need is
more black in your wardrobe.
135
00:11:18,356 --> 00:11:21,723
If it makes you happy I'll pick out
colorful T-shirts tomorrow with Dad.
136
00:11:21,893 --> 00:11:24,384
- Maybe a nice fuchsia.
- What's tomorrow with Dad?
137
00:11:24,562 --> 00:11:27,656
He's taking me suit shopping
for our recital. I thought I told you.
138
00:11:31,869 --> 00:11:34,667
Your dad left for Boston
this morning honey.
139
00:11:34,839 --> 00:11:36,067
He did what?
140
00:11:36,374 --> 00:11:39,366
There was a convention.
He must have forgotten.
141
00:11:40,278 --> 00:11:42,439
I just talked to him the other day.
He promised.
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- The recital's in two weeks.
- I'm sure he was planning on calling you.
143
00:11:46,351 --> 00:11:48,342
Look don't worry.
I'll take you tomorrow.
144
00:11:48,519 --> 00:11:51,454
- I can't believe him.
- Trust me this is a blessing in disguise.
145
00:11:51,623 --> 00:11:55,286
- Your father is the worst shopper.
- My father is the worst everything.
146
00:11:55,460 --> 00:11:56,893
Don't.
147
00:12:00,498 --> 00:12:03,092
How's this? You me Barneys.
148
00:12:03,668 --> 00:12:05,966
We'll get the most expensive suit
we can find...
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...charge it to your dad
then have a fabulous lunch...
150
00:12:08,940 --> 00:12:11,807
...where I may even let you
have a sip or two of my mimosa.
151
00:12:11,976 --> 00:12:14,274
Well you know how much
I like the hard stuff.
152
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What do you say? Deal?
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Deal.
154
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- Thanks Mom.
- Any time handsome.
155
00:12:45,109 --> 00:12:46,872
- Morning.
- Morning doctor.
156
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Yes. Glorious.
157
00:12:51,582 --> 00:12:54,210
Any particular reason
for this Brady Bunch outing?
158
00:12:54,385 --> 00:12:57,821
Well Nina's helping Delia find a dress
and Ephram and I...
159
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- I'm going in.
...are gonna buy a suit.
160
00:13:00,325 --> 00:13:02,054
Such a happy child.
161
00:13:02,226 --> 00:13:04,251
Okay girlfriend
ready to shop till we drop?
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00:13:04,429 --> 00:13:06,727
- lf we must.
- We must.
163
00:13:08,533 --> 00:13:10,364
So working on a Sunday?
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Got some extra paperwork
to catch up on.
165
00:13:12,637 --> 00:13:16,437
Rather busy week what with so many
people coming down with the flu.
166
00:13:16,607 --> 00:13:19,075
I understand Colin may have
come down with it as well.
167
00:13:19,243 --> 00:13:20,471
I wasn't aware of that.
168
00:13:20,645 --> 00:13:23,045
Amy mentioned
he hadn't been feeling well.
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Some bouts of nausea
I think she said.
170
00:13:25,416 --> 00:13:28,249
- He's been vomiting?
- Possibly. I don't know.
171
00:13:28,419 --> 00:13:32,583
- Would that be highly irregular?
- I'll look into it. Thanks.
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00:13:32,757 --> 00:13:34,884
Well enjoy your shopping.
173
00:13:42,567 --> 00:13:45,195
- What do you think of these?
- Hate them.
174
00:13:45,737 --> 00:13:49,503
Do me the courtesy of looking at them
before dismissing them out of hand.
175
00:13:49,674 --> 00:13:53,235
What if I'd picked something in powder
blue? You would have missed the joke.
176
00:13:53,411 --> 00:13:57,040
I can do this by myself. Why don't you
give me your credit card and help Delia.
177
00:13:57,215 --> 00:14:00,776
- Delia's taken care of. I'd like to help you.
- Well I don't want you to.
178
00:14:01,753 --> 00:14:03,118
All right.
179
00:14:05,390 --> 00:14:09,724
I have to meet with the Harts anyway.
I'll see you back at the house.
180
00:14:13,664 --> 00:14:17,896
- Ephram what about this one?
- Now that I like.
181
00:14:18,269 --> 00:14:22,103
I thought so. Go try it on.
We'll get you fitted properly.
182
00:14:28,579 --> 00:14:31,013
I'll be back with more pins.
183
00:14:32,183 --> 00:14:35,914
Look at you. You are gonna be the most
handsome young man at your recital.
184
00:14:36,087 --> 00:14:38,112
I'm gonna mess up
the middle part again.
185
00:14:38,289 --> 00:14:40,814
- You're obsessing again.
- I just want it to be perfect.
186
00:14:40,992 --> 00:14:43,324
You're driving all the way out
to Jersey for this.
187
00:14:45,129 --> 00:14:47,620
- What are you smiling about?
- Nothing.
188
00:14:47,799 --> 00:14:51,667
- You're just so like your father sometimes.
- I am nothing like him.
189
00:14:52,203 --> 00:14:55,263
Don't be angry with him.
He feels awful about everything.
190
00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:59,171
- He called you didn't he?
- Yeah but only because you told him to.
191
00:14:59,343 --> 00:15:00,571
How did you know that?
192
00:15:00,745 --> 00:15:05,273
You think I don't know you sign his name
on birthday cards and pick out the presents?
193
00:15:05,450 --> 00:15:08,977
- When we first met he wasn't always this...
- This much of a jerk?
194
00:15:09,153 --> 00:15:12,281
I was going to say
"Wasn't always this busy."
195
00:15:12,457 --> 00:15:16,154
When we first met
it was very different.
196
00:15:16,727 --> 00:15:19,195
Probably didn't fight
as much either huh?
197
00:15:20,097 --> 00:15:22,622
- Your father and I don't fight that much.
- Mom.
198
00:15:25,002 --> 00:15:28,130
Have you decided if you're gonna
invite Gwen Stefani to the recital?
199
00:15:28,306 --> 00:15:31,400
You know her name's not really
Gwen Stefani right? It's Katherine.
200
00:15:31,576 --> 00:15:34,704
She just kind of looks like her.
And no l... I changed my mind.
201
00:15:34,879 --> 00:15:38,212
Really? I thought it was a brilliant
tactical maneuver on your part.
202
00:15:38,382 --> 00:15:41,317
- How do you figure?
- She'd be seeing you in your element.
203
00:15:41,486 --> 00:15:44,819
Remember when John Augustine got
the lead in your school play last year?
204
00:15:44,989 --> 00:15:47,287
He had all the girls
in love with him after that.
205
00:15:47,458 --> 00:15:51,451
That boy couldn't act his way out of
a paper bag not to mention his dandruff.
206
00:15:51,629 --> 00:15:53,460
It wasn't about his looks.
207
00:15:53,631 --> 00:15:56,794
Those girls fell in love with
his presence on stage his confidence.
208
00:15:56,968 --> 00:15:58,993
That's what draws the women in.
209
00:15:59,170 --> 00:16:03,038
And sweetheart
when you play the piano...
210
00:16:03,207 --> 00:16:06,267
...you have no idea
but your whole body changes.
211
00:16:06,444 --> 00:16:11,438
You sit down on that bench and you
forget about all your insecurities.
212
00:16:11,616 --> 00:16:14,449
It's like you finally allow yourself
to be who you really are.
213
00:16:14,619 --> 00:16:16,086
A total piano dork?
214
00:16:16,254 --> 00:16:18,814
- An unbelievably gifted musician.
- Mom.
215
00:16:19,056 --> 00:16:22,924
- Mom the pins! Okay the pins!
- I'm sorry.
216
00:16:25,363 --> 00:16:26,660
Sorry.
217
00:16:31,269 --> 00:16:34,761
- Hi.
- Dr. Brown. This is an unexpected surprise.
218
00:16:34,939 --> 00:16:38,466
I thought I'd make a house call
save you another trip to the office.
219
00:16:38,643 --> 00:16:40,201
- How are you doing Colin?
- Good.
220
00:16:40,378 --> 00:16:43,404
- Must be good to leave the hospital huh?
- Yeah. Definitely.
221
00:16:43,581 --> 00:16:47,517
It'll be nice when we don't have
to have these checkups so frequently.
222
00:16:47,685 --> 00:16:53,089
- Mom I can't find my iPod. Oh sorry.
- I'll help you in a second honey.
223
00:16:53,257 --> 00:16:54,485
Go.
224
00:16:55,826 --> 00:16:58,124
- Have a seat please.
- Oh thanks.
225
00:17:01,766 --> 00:17:04,326
Did the Denver doctors
fill you in on your lab results?
226
00:17:04,635 --> 00:17:07,365
Yeah most of them I think.
It all sounded good right?
227
00:17:07,605 --> 00:17:10,938
- It did. How are you feeling otherwise?
- What do you mean?
228
00:17:11,108 --> 00:17:14,168
The usual stuff. Headaches
stomachaches things like that.
229
00:17:14,345 --> 00:17:18,782
- No I feel good.
- So you haven't been throwing up lately?
230
00:17:19,984 --> 00:17:23,351
There's the occasional bout of nausea
but that's normal for our family.
231
00:17:23,521 --> 00:17:24,783
We have nervous stomachs.
232
00:17:24,956 --> 00:17:28,892
That may be but as Colin's physician
I need to know about these things.
233
00:17:29,060 --> 00:17:31,620
Everything that happens
anything out of the ordinary...
234
00:17:31,796 --> 00:17:34,287
...if Colin stubs his toe
I wanna hear about it.
235
00:17:34,465 --> 00:17:39,425
I apologize. From now on
I will keep you updated on everything.
236
00:17:39,604 --> 00:17:44,166
- So how persistent is the vomiting?
- Just a few times the last couple of days.
237
00:17:44,342 --> 00:17:48,142
- Any idea what brings it on?
- Last night I was just running around.
238
00:17:48,312 --> 00:17:51,907
I wasn't feeling you know
that well before anyways.
239
00:17:52,083 --> 00:17:55,450
- I just got the flu.
- Maybe.
240
00:17:55,620 --> 00:17:59,852
But to be safe I want Colin to stop by
my office tomorrow for a funduscopy.
241
00:18:00,024 --> 00:18:03,152
- Simple eye test. It won't take long.
- But why?
242
00:18:03,327 --> 00:18:06,626
It's another test that checks
for increased intercranial pressure.
243
00:18:06,797 --> 00:18:09,595
It picks up things
that the CT scan might not.
244
00:18:09,767 --> 00:18:12,930
It's just a precaution.
You don't mind do you?
245
00:18:13,104 --> 00:18:16,596
Looks like you didn't save us
that extra trip after all did you?
246
00:18:32,056 --> 00:18:33,580
What'd you get?
247
00:18:33,758 --> 00:18:36,886
- What'd you get?
- Oh it's just a suit.
248
00:18:37,294 --> 00:18:39,023
For your recital?
249
00:18:40,297 --> 00:18:42,959
Your recital.
I thought it was coming up.
250
00:18:43,134 --> 00:18:47,798
Oh yeah no. It's not for that.
I guess I could wear it for that too.
251
00:18:47,972 --> 00:18:50,600
- You're rambling again.
- Oh yeah sorry.
252
00:18:50,775 --> 00:18:53,073
I just... I got some things on my mind.
253
00:18:53,811 --> 00:18:55,676
So what are you doing?
254
00:18:56,013 --> 00:18:59,244
Colin and I were supposed
to see a movie but he's really late.
255
00:18:59,417 --> 00:19:01,681
We'll probably have to catch
the next one.
256
00:19:01,852 --> 00:19:04,844
- Did you want to hang out with us?
- No I should get home.
257
00:19:05,022 --> 00:19:09,425
But you'll invite me to your recital
right? I mean when it happens.
258
00:19:09,593 --> 00:19:11,288
You'd want to come?
259
00:19:11,462 --> 00:19:14,090
Of course I would.
You're an awesome piano player.
260
00:19:14,265 --> 00:19:17,928
Plus I've never seen you in a real suit
before. See? Tons of reasons to go.
261
00:19:19,136 --> 00:19:20,626
Colin.
262
00:19:21,272 --> 00:19:22,637
See you later.
263
00:19:23,374 --> 00:19:27,242
Where have you been? The movie started 10
minutes ago. We could catch the next one...
264
00:19:27,411 --> 00:19:30,869
I was with Dr. Brown my new best friend
who I have to see again tomorrow.
265
00:19:31,048 --> 00:19:34,347
- He wants to run another test on me.
- What?
266
00:19:34,518 --> 00:19:38,318
Do you blab everything that happens
between us to the whole world...
267
00:19:38,489 --> 00:19:40,650
...or just the stuff
about me being sick?
268
00:19:41,158 --> 00:19:44,321
I didn't. What are you talking about?
You're not sick.
269
00:19:44,495 --> 00:19:48,226
I know. But apparently when the doctor
finds out that I've been throwing up...
270
00:19:48,399 --> 00:19:51,835
- How did he? I didn't tell him.
- You didn't tell anyone?
271
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,073
Oh no.
272
00:20:01,312 --> 00:20:05,976
- I think I'm gonna skip this movie.
- Colin wait I didn't mean to...
273
00:20:06,183 --> 00:20:10,449
I got a lot to deal with Amy. I don't need
to worry about whether I can trust you.
274
00:20:10,621 --> 00:20:12,680
I just need to know
that you're on my side.
275
00:20:14,024 --> 00:20:15,787
Of course I'm on your side.
276
00:20:16,427 --> 00:20:18,156
Yeah.
277
00:20:25,069 --> 00:20:27,629
The purpose of the funduscopy
is to check...
278
00:20:27,805 --> 00:20:30,740
...for hydrocephalus which is
increased fluid around the brain.
279
00:20:30,908 --> 00:20:34,002
The Denver doctors told us about that
but they weren't worried.
280
00:20:34,178 --> 00:20:37,579
The tests do indicate Colin isn't
a high-risk candidate which is good.
281
00:20:37,748 --> 00:20:41,013
- Which is great.
- But tests can be inconclusive.
282
00:20:41,185 --> 00:20:44,677
Call it a gut feeling but something's
not sitting well with me.
283
00:20:44,855 --> 00:20:48,552
- What are you trying to say?
- I'm concerned about Colin.
284
00:20:48,759 --> 00:20:51,660
Right now I don't think that
going to Denver once a month...
285
00:20:51,829 --> 00:20:54,024
...for a round of generic tests
is enough.
286
00:20:54,198 --> 00:20:58,567
I recommend that you send him somewhere
where he can be monitored 24 hours a day.
287
00:20:58,736 --> 00:21:02,502
You want us to send
our son away again?
288
00:21:02,673 --> 00:21:06,109
For a while yes.
There are facilities I can recommend...
289
00:21:06,277 --> 00:21:07,869
We just got our son back.
290
00:21:08,045 --> 00:21:11,242
We won't ship him off to some psych ward
because of your gut feeling.
291
00:21:11,415 --> 00:21:14,907
I understand how hard this is for you
but you guys have to trust me.
292
00:21:15,085 --> 00:21:18,248
All of Colin's other doctors are
very positive and supportive.
293
00:21:18,422 --> 00:21:20,686
That's what he needs right now
not more testing.
294
00:21:20,858 --> 00:21:23,520
Certainly not to be separated
from family and friends...
295
00:21:23,694 --> 00:21:25,855
...just when he's starting
to feel comfortable.
296
00:21:26,030 --> 00:21:28,362
This would only be for a short while.
297
00:21:28,532 --> 00:21:33,231
You know a mother has instincts too.
And right now mine are telling me...
298
00:21:33,404 --> 00:21:36,771
...that you may no longer be
the best doctor for my son.
299
00:21:37,074 --> 00:21:38,905
I'm sorry?
300
00:21:39,243 --> 00:21:43,976
We've talked about this a lot. Back in
New York you only performed surgery.
301
00:21:44,181 --> 00:21:46,149
- That's correct but...
- Don't get me wrong.
302
00:21:46,317 --> 00:21:48,808
I'd never underestimate
what you've done for my son.
303
00:21:48,986 --> 00:21:50,920
I'll be eternally grateful.
304
00:21:51,088 --> 00:21:55,081
But there's a difference between a surgeon
and a full-time family physician.
305
00:21:55,259 --> 00:21:59,195
You're still looking for problems.
We're just looking for peace.
306
00:21:59,363 --> 00:22:01,160
Can you understand that?
307
00:22:01,532 --> 00:22:04,831
Yes I do understand that.
But I also understand that...
308
00:22:05,002 --> 00:22:08,199
...you don't wanna deal with the severity
of what's happened to Colin.
309
00:22:08,372 --> 00:22:10,966
And as your doctor and your friend
I am telling you...
310
00:22:11,141 --> 00:22:14,941
...he is not out of the woods yet.
His symptoms could worsen.
311
00:22:15,312 --> 00:22:19,112
We'll be mindful of that but you
don't have to worry about it anymore.
312
00:22:20,384 --> 00:22:22,875
We appreciate you stopping by.
313
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,852
Don't do this please.
You're making a big mistake.
314
00:22:26,023 --> 00:22:28,787
I think it's time
for you to go doctor.
315
00:22:29,393 --> 00:22:33,022
Thank you for everything.
I won't forget it.
316
00:22:48,045 --> 00:22:51,139
- Where's Dad?
- No idea.
317
00:22:51,348 --> 00:22:54,442
- You're making dinner?
- Noodles and soup.
318
00:22:54,852 --> 00:22:56,786
Pick a flavor. Chicken or Oriental?
319
00:22:57,254 --> 00:23:00,052
I didn't think noodles were supposed
to taste like chicken.
320
00:23:00,224 --> 00:23:02,920
- What's Oriental taste like?
- No idea.
321
00:23:03,093 --> 00:23:06,551
- Let's make them both and find out.
- Good thinking.
322
00:23:07,698 --> 00:23:08,995
Ephram?
323
00:23:10,234 --> 00:23:12,862
Are you scared to go back home?
324
00:23:13,037 --> 00:23:16,564
- No. Why? Are you?
- A little.
325
00:23:16,740 --> 00:23:19,937
Sometimes I think
maybe Mom's still there.
326
00:23:20,110 --> 00:23:23,910
Like she didn't die
except now she's mad at us.
327
00:23:24,081 --> 00:23:26,242
Well why would she be mad?
328
00:23:26,483 --> 00:23:31,819
It's just when she died
I used to think about her all the time.
329
00:23:32,890 --> 00:23:37,020
- Now you don't think about her as much?
- Not as much no.
330
00:23:37,528 --> 00:23:40,224
And you think she'd be
mad at you for that?
331
00:23:44,468 --> 00:23:47,801
- Remember my favorite sneakers?
- The Pumas with your name all over them?
332
00:23:47,972 --> 00:23:50,497
Yeah. Remember how
I used to wear them all the time?
333
00:23:50,674 --> 00:23:53,074
They smelled so bad
Mom put baby powder in them.
334
00:23:53,243 --> 00:23:55,211
She even threw them away
that one time.
335
00:23:55,379 --> 00:23:58,974
But then she went in the garbage
to get them back.
336
00:23:59,149 --> 00:24:05,179
I don't wear my Pumas that much anymore.
But when I do it's extra special.
337
00:24:05,456 --> 00:24:07,287
You know what I mean?
338
00:24:08,192 --> 00:24:09,523
You sure?
339
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,925
All right. Go wash up.
Dinner's ready.
340
00:24:32,016 --> 00:24:35,110
I thought we were going to a nice lunch.
I was promised champagne.
341
00:24:35,285 --> 00:24:38,277
Sorry but I had a hankering
for a greasy cheeseburger instead.
342
00:24:38,455 --> 00:24:40,685
- You ready to order?
- Yeah.
343
00:24:44,061 --> 00:24:45,460
- Oh my God.
- What's wrong?
344
00:24:45,629 --> 00:24:48,257
Her parents own the diner.
I didn't know she worked here.
345
00:24:48,432 --> 00:24:51,230
- Whose parents? Who you talking about?
- The waitress.
346
00:24:51,402 --> 00:24:53,233
- What about her?
- We have to go now.
347
00:24:53,404 --> 00:24:56,202
Because Katherine Adams
a.k. a Gwen Stefani is our waitress?
348
00:24:56,373 --> 00:24:57,738
No because...
349
00:24:59,543 --> 00:25:03,877
You set me up. This is
completely illegal mother behavior.
350
00:25:04,048 --> 00:25:08,678
I know. So are you gonna invite her
to the recital or what? No excuses now.
351
00:25:08,852 --> 00:25:12,049
How did you even know she worked here?
You didn't even know her name.
352
00:25:12,222 --> 00:25:16,022
How did you know her name?
What are you? Are you CIA?
353
00:25:16,360 --> 00:25:19,193
Nope PTA. I know everything.
354
00:25:19,363 --> 00:25:22,127
Now go ask her. Go on.
355
00:25:22,299 --> 00:25:25,166
- I can't. I can't.
- Yes you can.
356
00:25:25,335 --> 00:25:27,098
I won't even watch. I promise.
357
00:25:27,271 --> 00:25:29,171
- What if she says no?
- She won't.
358
00:25:29,339 --> 00:25:32,775
- How do you know?
- Because I just do. Go.
359
00:25:35,579 --> 00:25:36,876
Don't watch.
360
00:25:45,222 --> 00:25:48,749
She even knows the piece I'm playing
which is so unbelievably cool.
361
00:25:48,926 --> 00:25:51,861
- Why would she know that?
- She's obviously an intelligent girl.
362
00:25:52,029 --> 00:25:54,827
- She's obviously meant to be with me.
- Obviously.
363
00:25:54,998 --> 00:25:57,990
- Did you see when we left? She waved.
- I did.
364
00:25:58,168 --> 00:26:00,636
That's right. We waved.
365
00:26:01,738 --> 00:26:06,539
Hi, it's me.
Listen, I won't be coming home tonight.
366
00:26:07,144 --> 00:26:11,979
I know I said I was, but something's
come up. And I won't be able to make it.
367
00:26:12,149 --> 00:26:14,674
Tell the kids I'll call them when I can.
368
00:26:16,453 --> 00:26:19,422
- Where is he?
- I guess he's still in Boston.
369
00:26:19,590 --> 00:26:22,753
No he's not. I called the hotel.
He's not there. I checked.
370
00:26:22,926 --> 00:26:25,417
- What hotel?
- The hotel he told me he was staying at.
371
00:26:25,596 --> 00:26:29,191
Where did he tell you he was staying?
Did he bother sticking to the same lie?
372
00:26:29,366 --> 00:26:33,302
You guys have been fighting way more
than usual. Something's going on.
373
00:26:33,470 --> 00:26:35,563
Nothing's going on.
374
00:26:37,674 --> 00:26:42,077
He's cheating on you isn't he? He's
cheating and you wanna protect him...
375
00:26:42,246 --> 00:26:44,237
...so I won't know
what a jerk he really is?
376
00:26:44,414 --> 00:26:46,439
Sweetheart no.
This doesn't concern you.
377
00:26:46,617 --> 00:26:50,280
Why don't you just leave him?
We don't need him.
378
00:26:50,454 --> 00:26:52,922
He doesn't do anything.
We could move away from here.
379
00:26:53,090 --> 00:26:54,557
I could help take care of Delia.
380
00:26:54,725 --> 00:26:57,990
We do need him. I need him Ephram.
381
00:26:58,162 --> 00:27:00,722
You don't understand
but I love your father very much.
382
00:27:00,898 --> 00:27:02,798
I couldn't imagine my life
without him.
383
00:27:02,966 --> 00:27:05,833
And I'm telling you
this family wouldn't work without him.
384
00:27:06,003 --> 00:27:08,528
You're just afraid.
You tell me that I should be brave.
385
00:27:08,705 --> 00:27:12,197
You tell me that I should take risks.
What about you?
386
00:27:14,111 --> 00:27:17,740
- Ephram it's not that simple.
- Forget it.
387
00:27:31,495 --> 00:27:33,759
- It's good ham Mom.
- Thank you dear.
388
00:27:33,931 --> 00:27:37,731
- Bright could you please pass the salt?
- I'm using it.
389
00:27:38,602 --> 00:27:43,596
- Well when you're done then.
- I'll never be done with the salt ever.
390
00:27:44,875 --> 00:27:46,399
What if I need the salt?
391
00:27:46,577 --> 00:27:49,273
Obviously you're still upset with me.
That's fine.
392
00:27:49,446 --> 00:27:51,175
Still upset?
393
00:27:51,348 --> 00:27:55,148
Should I be over your total betrayal
of me after only one day?
394
00:27:55,319 --> 00:27:58,618
Is that what you expected?
Guess again because I'll never be over it.
395
00:27:58,789 --> 00:28:00,916
All right.
Let's everyone just calm down.
396
00:28:01,091 --> 00:28:04,618
Colin's furious at me. Okay?
He doesn't wanna talk to me anymore.
397
00:28:04,795 --> 00:28:06,524
And you know what?
I don't blame him.
398
00:28:06,697 --> 00:28:08,995
He trusted me and like an idiot
I trusted you.
399
00:28:09,166 --> 00:28:11,225
But that was obviously a huge mistake.
400
00:28:11,401 --> 00:28:13,369
Honey you're overreacting.
401
00:28:13,537 --> 00:28:16,597
Do you understand the word "trust"?
Because I don't think you do.
402
00:28:16,773 --> 00:28:20,504
I simply inquired about Colin's health
much the same way that you came to me.
403
00:28:20,677 --> 00:28:23,976
I came to you in confidence
like a daughter goes to a father...
404
00:28:24,147 --> 00:28:27,139
...not like a doctor goes
to another doctor he doesn't even like.
405
00:28:27,317 --> 00:28:30,184
I mentioned Colin in passing.
I was worried about your friend.
406
00:28:30,354 --> 00:28:33,016
My boyfriend. Boyfriend.
407
00:28:34,258 --> 00:28:37,694
I can't believe I didn't see this sooner.
It's obvious what you're doing.
408
00:28:37,861 --> 00:28:41,297
- What are you talking about?
- You're trying to keep Colin and me apart.
409
00:28:41,465 --> 00:28:46,198
You're worried that I may be growing up
too fast and you don't like it.
410
00:28:46,370 --> 00:28:48,395
- That's just too damn bad.
- That is enough.
411
00:28:48,572 --> 00:28:51,564
You go to your room and stay there
until I tell you to come out.
412
00:28:51,742 --> 00:28:54,973
You know it's true. If it were up
to him I'd still be in pigtails...
413
00:28:55,145 --> 00:28:58,273
...and getting cootie shots
every time a boy touched me.
414
00:28:58,649 --> 00:29:01,914
I love Colin. I love him more than
anything else in the entire world.
415
00:29:02,085 --> 00:29:06,146
And after what you did I won't be able
to trust you ever again with anything!
416
00:29:06,323 --> 00:29:09,918
Amy Nicole any more of this and you
won't get to talk to Colin for a week...
417
00:29:10,093 --> 00:29:12,891
...because that's how long
you'll be grounded for.
418
00:29:30,714 --> 00:29:33,649
- Where you been?
- Out.
419
00:29:34,117 --> 00:29:35,914
What the hell is your problem Ephram?
420
00:29:36,086 --> 00:29:39,283
I know going back to New York
is difficult for you.
421
00:29:39,456 --> 00:29:43,415
- But we're all having a hard time with it.
- You think that's what this is about?
422
00:29:43,593 --> 00:29:46,619
I don't know what it's about
because you won't tell me.
423
00:29:49,066 --> 00:29:53,002
Right before Mom died you said you
were in Boston but you never went.
424
00:29:53,170 --> 00:29:55,229
- Where were you?
- What has this got to do...?
425
00:29:55,405 --> 00:29:57,839
Answer the question.
426
00:29:58,608 --> 00:30:01,304
- I don't remember.
- Yes you do. You're a liar.
427
00:30:01,478 --> 00:30:04,242
- You know exactly where you were.
- Look.
428
00:30:04,414 --> 00:30:07,008
If I told you that I went to Boston
then I probably did.
429
00:30:07,184 --> 00:30:10,984
- I attended at least a dozen seminars...
- There was no seminar. I checked.
430
00:30:11,154 --> 00:30:15,523
All I want to know is who you were with
and how can you live with yourself?
431
00:30:16,426 --> 00:30:19,361
- You think I cheated on your mother?
- I know you did!
432
00:30:19,529 --> 00:30:21,793
I remember the day you left.
I remember the fight.
433
00:30:21,965 --> 00:30:25,264
I was practicing for the recital
the one you couldn't make it to.
434
00:30:25,435 --> 00:30:27,630
I wonder why.
Were you with her that night too?
435
00:30:27,804 --> 00:30:30,204
Were you with her the night Mom died?
436
00:30:30,507 --> 00:30:35,001
You listen to me
I never cheated on your mother.
437
00:30:35,178 --> 00:30:37,305
You understand me? Never.
438
00:30:37,481 --> 00:30:40,245
And if you ever say that again
I swear to God...
439
00:30:40,417 --> 00:30:43,443
...I won't be responsible
for what I do to you.
440
00:30:44,788 --> 00:30:48,884
Well then what happened? I mean
I know something happened. What?
441
00:30:50,761 --> 00:30:52,592
It doesn't matter.
442
00:30:52,763 --> 00:30:55,994
Yes it does. It matters to me.
443
00:30:56,166 --> 00:30:58,726
You owe it to me for every time
you weren't there...
444
00:30:58,902 --> 00:31:01,234
...you didn't show up
you didn't give a damn.
445
00:31:01,405 --> 00:31:03,635
You owe me the truth
because I'm asking for it.
446
00:31:03,807 --> 00:31:05,900
I won't disappear into my room
like I used to.
447
00:31:06,076 --> 00:31:10,513
And Mom's not here to cover for you.
It's just you and me right now.
448
00:31:11,748 --> 00:31:13,079
Tell me.
449
00:31:13,850 --> 00:31:15,818
I need to know.
450
00:31:23,827 --> 00:31:25,556
You're right Ephram.
451
00:31:27,030 --> 00:31:31,023
I didn't go to Boston.
I was staying at a hotel in the city.
452
00:31:31,902 --> 00:31:33,961
I had to get away.
453
00:31:35,772 --> 00:31:38,263
Your mother and I were fighting.
454
00:31:38,775 --> 00:31:40,174
That much I know.
455
00:31:41,578 --> 00:31:47,073
I was just so tired. I didn't want
to fight anymore so I just left.
456
00:31:48,485 --> 00:31:50,214
I didn't know what else to do.
457
00:31:50,754 --> 00:31:53,222
And then I got scared.
458
00:31:54,224 --> 00:31:55,919
Scared of what?
459
00:31:59,129 --> 00:32:01,563
That she would see him again.
460
00:32:02,466 --> 00:32:04,024
See who?
461
00:32:05,001 --> 00:32:09,233
Your mother met someone Ephram.
I was never going to tell you.
462
00:32:09,406 --> 00:32:12,398
No. No you're lying.
You're a liar.
463
00:32:12,576 --> 00:32:14,567
- Listen to me.
- You are a liar. It was you.
464
00:32:14,744 --> 00:32:19,147
- It wasn't her fault. I was never there.
- I would've known. She would've told me.
465
00:32:19,316 --> 00:32:22,012
You can't blame her Ephram.
I was never there for her.
466
00:32:22,185 --> 00:32:24,745
- I was never there for all of you.
- I don't believe you.
467
00:32:24,921 --> 00:32:26,684
It doesn't mean anything.
468
00:32:26,857 --> 00:32:31,624
Your mother is the same woman you always
thought she was. Nothing has changed.
469
00:32:31,795 --> 00:32:33,490
Nothing.
470
00:32:36,700 --> 00:32:39,191
No it's all different now.
471
00:32:39,936 --> 00:32:41,801
Everything's different.
472
00:32:59,489 --> 00:33:00,888
Coffee.
473
00:33:02,726 --> 00:33:05,217
You look about as awful as I feel.
474
00:33:05,395 --> 00:33:09,695
I got bad news for you.
You look about as awful as you feel.
475
00:33:10,500 --> 00:33:12,127
So how's Colin?
476
00:33:12,602 --> 00:33:15,503
I wouldn't know.
I'm no longer his doctor.
477
00:33:15,672 --> 00:33:19,631
In fact I'd expect a phone call
pretty soon if I were you.
478
00:33:20,176 --> 00:33:23,873
Normally I'd relish the opportunity
to steal a patient from you doctor...
479
00:33:24,047 --> 00:33:26,572
...but I am going to pass on this one.
480
00:33:26,750 --> 00:33:29,878
My daughter already
hates me enough as it is.
481
00:33:30,253 --> 00:33:32,881
Oh really? When did that happen?
482
00:33:33,690 --> 00:33:36,989
Details aren't important
although I could blame you.
483
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,390
Go ahead. Everyone else does.
484
00:33:40,931 --> 00:33:43,593
Suffice it to say that my child
won't talk to me anymore.
485
00:33:43,767 --> 00:33:48,602
Apparently I've broken a sacred trust
by simply voicing an honest concern.
486
00:33:48,772 --> 00:33:52,003
If it makes you feel any better
Ephram's not talking to me either.
487
00:33:52,175 --> 00:33:55,906
Big deal. He never talks to you.
You're used to it.
488
00:33:56,079 --> 00:34:01,517
- Amy and I have a special relationship.
- Had. Had a special relationship.
489
00:34:02,052 --> 00:34:04,748
They don't want us
to treat them like children.
490
00:34:04,921 --> 00:34:07,219
But you talk to them like adults
they act like...
491
00:34:07,390 --> 00:34:09,824
- Teenagers.
- Exactly.
492
00:34:13,229 --> 00:34:15,060
I still blame you.
493
00:34:18,268 --> 00:34:20,736
Hey can I borrow your notes from...?
494
00:34:20,904 --> 00:34:24,499
- Where are you going?
- Back to boarding school.
495
00:34:25,475 --> 00:34:26,874
Why?
496
00:34:27,344 --> 00:34:30,108
I just feel like I was doing
so much better there.
497
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:33,681
- Teachers are smarter the classes...
- Laynie...
498
00:34:34,784 --> 00:34:39,380
I can't stay here anymore. You're sick
and nobody wants to deal with it.
499
00:34:39,556 --> 00:34:44,584
I don't want to make you sad
but I just can't be here anymore.
500
00:34:44,761 --> 00:34:48,026
I feel like everything's
gonna fall apart again.
501
00:34:48,198 --> 00:34:49,927
I don't want to be here when it does.
502
00:34:50,100 --> 00:34:54,935
Hey nothing's gonna happen.
Everything's gonna be fine I promise.
503
00:34:56,706 --> 00:35:01,734
You won't be mad at me if I go right?
Just don't be mad at me.
504
00:35:01,911 --> 00:35:03,970
Of course I won't be mad.
505
00:35:05,181 --> 00:35:06,614
I just...
506
00:35:10,720 --> 00:35:12,347
I'll miss you.
507
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:18,752
So call me?
508
00:35:19,596 --> 00:35:20,995
I will.
509
00:35:29,406 --> 00:35:31,203
It's getting late.
510
00:35:34,177 --> 00:35:36,702
I know. I'm just wrapping up.
511
00:35:38,648 --> 00:35:43,210
I've been angry at you. I've been
hating you for a long time now.
512
00:35:43,553 --> 00:35:45,384
And I was wrong.
513
00:35:45,855 --> 00:35:49,814
You never deserved to be
treated that way. I'm sorry.
514
00:35:53,663 --> 00:35:56,188
You don't need to apologize Ephram.
515
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,197
I failed you as a father for 15 years.
516
00:36:00,770 --> 00:36:03,568
I was never there for you
or your mother.
517
00:36:04,174 --> 00:36:07,200
That's why sometimes you feel
like throwing me off a cliff...
518
00:36:07,377 --> 00:36:09,743
...and that's why your mother did
what she did.
519
00:36:10,747 --> 00:36:13,238
But I don't blame
either of you for it.
520
00:36:16,286 --> 00:36:20,245
You know in the end it was me who
ended up begging her for forgiveness.
521
00:36:21,958 --> 00:36:26,588
I told her that things would
be different that I would change...
522
00:36:27,964 --> 00:36:29,693
...but I wouldn't have.
523
00:36:33,002 --> 00:36:36,438
I might have been better
for a while but then...
524
00:36:40,143 --> 00:36:42,703
She loved you. She told me that.
525
00:36:42,879 --> 00:36:44,540
She told me that all the time.
526
00:36:47,584 --> 00:36:51,111
She loved you too.
Very much.
527
00:36:51,287 --> 00:36:53,915
- Yeah but she lied to me.
- No she didn't.
528
00:36:54,090 --> 00:36:58,026
What happened between us had nothing to
do with you. She was right not to tell you.
529
00:36:58,194 --> 00:36:59,821
I never should have.
530
00:37:00,663 --> 00:37:02,688
But still I'm glad you did.
531
00:37:02,866 --> 00:37:06,199
I was making her perfect
in my mind and...
532
00:37:07,203 --> 00:37:10,502
Well she was perfect.
She was a perfect mother.
533
00:37:10,774 --> 00:37:12,332
No she wasn't...
534
00:37:13,510 --> 00:37:15,102
...but that's okay.
535
00:37:15,278 --> 00:37:17,974
I don't need her
to be perfect anymore.
536
00:37:31,594 --> 00:37:34,995
If you need to be angry
be angry Ephram.
537
00:37:35,832 --> 00:37:37,800
But then forgive her.
538
00:37:38,334 --> 00:37:40,529
Tomorrow we fly home
to honor your mother...
539
00:37:40,703 --> 00:37:43,035
...in a way she deserves
to be honored.
540
00:37:45,408 --> 00:37:50,846
Because maybe she wasn't perfect
but she was damn close.
541
00:38:02,625 --> 00:38:04,889
I'm gonna start packing.
542
00:38:05,161 --> 00:38:08,528
- We leave early tomorrow so...
- I'll be home soon.
543
00:38:19,642 --> 00:38:22,304
If you came here to apologize
you can forget it.
544
00:38:22,478 --> 00:38:25,675
Well actually
I wasn't planning on apologizing.
545
00:38:26,950 --> 00:38:28,815
Honey I'm not sorry for what I did.
546
00:38:28,985 --> 00:38:33,581
And if I had to do it all over again
I would do exactly the same thing.
547
00:38:34,324 --> 00:38:38,556
You may not agree with all of my choices
and you certainly won't always like them.
548
00:38:38,962 --> 00:38:42,864
But you'll have to accept them because
for the time being I'm still the grownup.
549
00:38:43,032 --> 00:38:47,128
So slamming doors
throwing temper tantrums that's...
550
00:38:47,670 --> 00:38:51,731
Well that's just obnoxious behavior.
Quite frankly that's beneath you.
551
00:38:51,908 --> 00:38:54,001
If you're angry with me
about something...
552
00:38:54,177 --> 00:38:58,807
...we can discuss it rationally
or we can agree to disagree.
553
00:38:59,582 --> 00:39:02,050
I'll leave that choice up to you.
554
00:39:04,220 --> 00:39:05,881
Are you done?
555
00:39:07,490 --> 00:39:10,050
Yes. I believe I am.
556
00:39:11,861 --> 00:39:14,295
Would you mind leaving me alone?
557
00:39:36,986 --> 00:39:42,947
Julia's son Ephram will now lead us
in the Kaddish prayer.
558
00:40:06,983 --> 00:40:10,009
- Have you gotten to the middle part yet?
- No.
559
00:40:13,122 --> 00:40:16,785
I've thought about what you said before
trying to come up with an answer...
560
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:21,294
...that might explain might satisfy you
in some way or another.
561
00:40:21,464 --> 00:40:25,400
But I don't think you want me
to rationalize why I do what I do.
562
00:40:25,568 --> 00:40:28,833
We do what we do
because we have no choice.
563
00:40:31,841 --> 00:40:33,706
Of course you have a choice.
564
00:40:36,012 --> 00:40:40,244
When you were about 3 years old we went
to Nonnie and Grandpa's house for dinner.
565
00:40:40,416 --> 00:40:42,680
I think it was their anniversary.
566
00:40:42,852 --> 00:40:45,446
All the grownups were in the kitchen
having our coffee...
567
00:40:45,621 --> 00:40:48,647
...when suddenly I heard this music
coming from the living room.
568
00:40:48,825 --> 00:40:51,760
I walked out and saw you
sitting on the piano bench.
569
00:40:52,395 --> 00:40:56,354
You weren't banging away like a regular
3-year-old. You were making music.
570
00:40:56,532 --> 00:40:59,092
- I doubt it was...
- It was music.
571
00:40:59,602 --> 00:41:02,298
The whole family one by one
started coming out.
572
00:41:02,472 --> 00:41:05,908
Nonnie pulled out her camera
and started flashing away like a maniac.
573
00:41:06,075 --> 00:41:08,270
But you didn't even look up.
574
00:41:08,444 --> 00:41:12,904
You just kept hitting one key
after another hearing something.
575
00:41:13,082 --> 00:41:15,312
And that was it Ephram.
576
00:41:15,518 --> 00:41:18,180
You never stopped playing after that.
577
00:41:18,955 --> 00:41:21,446
I don't know what led you
to the piano that day.
578
00:41:21,624 --> 00:41:26,061
I don't know what's kept you coming back
day after day since then but you do it.
579
00:41:26,662 --> 00:41:28,323
Do you know why?
580
00:41:29,599 --> 00:41:30,964
No.
581
00:41:31,267 --> 00:41:33,565
It's because you have no choice.
582
00:41:33,736 --> 00:41:36,796
Even if you quit even if you decided
you were sick of spending...
583
00:41:36,973 --> 00:41:41,000
...so many hours practicing every day
you'd find your way back to this bench.
584
00:41:41,177 --> 00:41:44,078
Because you and your talent
you're inseparable.
585
00:41:44,247 --> 00:41:46,477
There isn't one without the other.
586
00:41:48,618 --> 00:41:51,052
Well that's me and your father.
587
00:41:51,220 --> 00:41:54,815
We don't exist without the other.
We're just...
588
00:41:55,224 --> 00:41:56,623
...one.
589
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:02,190
No matter what happens no matter
how bad the fight is there's no choice.
590
00:42:02,932 --> 00:42:07,164
We're together me and him and us.
591
00:42:08,237 --> 00:42:10,205
This family we're a unit.
592
00:42:10,373 --> 00:42:14,469
You can't question it or fight it.
You just have to give in to it.
593
00:42:15,411 --> 00:42:17,572
Even when it hurts.
594
00:42:20,983 --> 00:42:22,644
Does that make sense?
595
00:42:25,121 --> 00:42:26,418
Yeah.
596
00:42:33,796 --> 00:42:37,630
Well keep practicing.
I don't want to bother you.
597
00:42:38,768 --> 00:42:40,827
You don't have to go.
598
00:42:44,874 --> 00:42:47,206
I play better when you're here.
599
00:43:56,145 --> 00:43:58,136
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