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Dear Valentine:
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Come away with me.
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If I had a day with you
and you only...
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... I would enjoy the simple things.
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The things that, in the end,
when time steals the rest away...
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... are the only things we'll remember.
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I would paddle you across a still lake
in a rowboat...
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... and read poetry to you
until you fell asleep.
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And I would never ever think
about the hours.
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- What do you think she's thinking?
- She's thinking:
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"Valentine's is coming.
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Will he remember
to bring me something?"
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And he's thinking "Did I get her
a piece of string last year...
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...or the year before that?
Would a twig be unromantic?"
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And she's thinking
"Another twig?!
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That guy has no imagination.
My mother was right."
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Wait she's pecking him now.
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Now they're snuggling.
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Maybe they're just like us.
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- You about ready for that picnic?
- I could eat a bear.
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That's not what I'm talking about.
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Valentine's is two days off.
Pace yourself Romeo.
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- I'll go get it set up.
- I'm right behind you.
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Dear Valentine:
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If I had one day with you
and you only...
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... I would admire every line
of your face...
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... every strand of your hair...
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... every graceful movement of your hands
or your eyes or your body...
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... if I had one perfect day.
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Now what did I say
about pacing yourself?
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Irv?
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Irv?
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What's wrong?
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Get...
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...help.
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Don't you see?
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My heart beats only for you.
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- Thank you for coming.
- Are you kidding? I wouldn't miss this.
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- How you holding up Irv?
- Okay doc all things considered.
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- Did you talk to Dr. Phillips?
- I did. It's all good news.
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Cardiac episode was mild.
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No surgical intervention
is indicated at this time.
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Although you'll need to start
on diuretics...
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...which should bring
your blood pressure down...
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- And make me piss like a racehorse.
- That too.
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Did Dr. Phillips mention what the likelihood
was of another incident?
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As far these things go
I think and Dr. Phillips agrees...
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...lrv is in the best shape
you could hope for.
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If you stick to the diet
and respond well to the medication...
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...I think you should be in the clear.
- Well I appreciate your coming by.
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I know it's a sacrifice letting Harold win
the daily parking-space war.
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Hey doc looks like somebody took
your parking space again.
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Yes. Yes it does.
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Welcome back Gretchen!
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Thank you Dr. Abbott.
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Yes I see you put your winnings
to good use.
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- My winnings?
- Well therapy is like Vegas.
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The only decent odds
are with the house.
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I resent the implication I'm somehow
defrauding people of their money Harold.
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Now don't you kid a kidder Gretchen.
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You and I both know that couples therapy
it's like Botox.
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New of dubious therapeutic integrity
and ultimately useless...
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...to address the root causes
of the problem.
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What is the rush people?
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Psychosis will still be here tomorrow
and the day after that.
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Couples therapy.
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Rose hi.
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Rose? Rose Rose Rose.
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What on earth are you doing here?
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I'm signing us up Harold.
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To dialogue with that charlatan
about our marriage? Have you gone mad?
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Every marriage needs a shot in the arm
once in a while.
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What are you talking about?
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Well with Valentine's Day coming up
it occurred to me...
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No. What complaint could
you have about Valentine's Day?
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Every year I treat you
to a sumptuous meal...
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...accompanied by a dozen
long-stemmed pink roses.
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And an exotic sampler
of imported Swiss chocolates.
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Yes every year.
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You see what I mean Harold?
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No. No I don't.
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Well we'll talk about
it in our session.
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I'm glad to see you and Rose
are coming in.
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I can see that we have
a lot of things to discuss.
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No no it's Ephram.
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E-P-H-R-A-M.
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Picking up a valentine package?
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That would be a big no.
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E-P-H-R-A-M.
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Well I think we do have
a package.
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Thank you.
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And one for you.
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- That's "Hart" right?
- Good guess.
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I've only lived here all my life.
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Oh let me get it.
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So what about you?
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You got a secret admirer
at boarding school or something?
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No St. Margaret's is actually an all-girls.
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And I'm not a lesbian...
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...yet.
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- So what is it?
- Supplies from the outside world.
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A Band-Aid measure until I get out
of here and ship quaint reminders in...
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...and think nostalgically of my wasted
youth bored off my ass in Everwood.
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Finally someone who hates it here
as much as I do.
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- As much? More.
- Not possible.
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Okay I challenge you.
"I hate Everwood" contest.
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I'll go first.
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I hate the fact that the egg rolls
at Gino Changs smell like lasagna.
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I hate that everything's a fest.
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Thaw fest fly fest pie fest.
What does that even mean?
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And what's so festive about catching
some fish or watching some guy melt?
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I hate that they call it Main Street. It's the
only one. They should just call it "Street."
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Do you have a map of another city
covering a wall in your room?
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Do you choose colleges based
on how far they are?
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Ever had a dream
you were trapped in a sewer...
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...and woken up disappointed
you were still in Everwood?
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Do you have a packed bag
and a plane ticket in your room?
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- Come on.
- You don't believe me I'll show you.
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I believe you. I've kept a bag for a while.
I hadn't bought a ticket.
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What happened?
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I promised my dad I'd stay.
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That's how you get stuck
in places like this.
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There's always somebody
who needs you.
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Nina?
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Do you like it?
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Very much. What is it?
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It's from Carl. Every year he sends
a Valentine's Day bouquet...
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...representative of the state
he's in at the time.
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Guadalajara?
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Arizona.
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He says it'll flower too.
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Oh Andy I'm sorry.
That was thoughtless of me.
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- What was?
- Bringing up Valentine's Day.
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It was a nonevent in my life
long before now.
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I used to send Julia a dozen roses
every year but I never saw them.
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I'd have my secretary send them
strictly pro forma.
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Would you do it differently
if you had to do it again?
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That's how you know
you've internalized change.
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Dr. Trott you're back.
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- It's great to see you again.
- It's good to see you as well.
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I'll have to sign up
for my allotted time slot.
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I'm afraid it's only couples therapy
in February.
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- A kind of Valentine's tradition.
- That's too bad.
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I enjoyed our last session very much.
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Well we could do something
less formal.
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- Lunch say?
- I'd like that.
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Tomorrow then.
Here's my cell phone number.
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- You can call me. We'll pick a restaurant.
- Sounds like a plan.
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Thank you.
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Andy...
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...you have a date.
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She's a professional psychologist not
to mention my professional psychologist.
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- Your shrink just made a date with you.
- She made a professional lunch.
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So what should we do Friday night?
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Maybe we could go
to Fuller's Pond like we did last year.
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No I didn't remember. My mom showed
me pictures from Valentine's Day last year.
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She show you the one
where I fell on my face?
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Yeah apparently I'm a better skater
than you.
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- Wouldn't you like to know?
- Bet I could find out.
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- No Colin. Colin stop.
- I'm a way better skater than you are.
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- No you're not Colin!
- Say it. "Colin is a better skater."
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- Colin is a better skater than me!
- Then you must really suck.
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- Hey Laynie.
- Oh hey.
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- Ephram.
- Ephram.
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- What are you doing here?
- I found him at the post office...
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...hanging around the outbound box.
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- I think somebody was trying to return him.
- I wish.
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Well we'll leave you two
to resume your...
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...tickling.
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You've got your pills
but you don't need to worry.
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I've got a timer all set.
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- I've stocked the fridge with healthy foods.
- Oh joy.
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The sheets are in the dryer.
We can sleep down here.
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That way you don't have
to do the steps.
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I'm gonna take a quick shower
then I'll see about dinner.
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If you need me use this.
I borrowed it from Mindy Walsh.
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Skip doesn't need it anymore.
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Anything you say
I'll be able to hear.
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Can I talk dirty into it?
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So what areas did we want
to focus on today?
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She speaks.
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I was hoping you might be
a Freudian but no such luck.
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I was addressing Rose Harold.
Your turn will come next.
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When we were first together
he used to do these...
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...little things for me all the time.
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All right Rose.
You've proven your point.
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You can in fact put me through hell any
time you want to because you're my wife.
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- Can we leave now?
- No we cannot leave.
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Just lay it on me! You want breakfast
in bed? You want flowers every Friday?
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How much is my ticket out of this
gas-guzzling hellhole gonna cost me?
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Rose is trying to communicate with you.
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She's not trying
to communicate...
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...she's trying to drive me insane.
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- What makes you say that?
- That is what married people do!
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Is that how you see marriage?
Can you elaborate?
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Not without strangling you.
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Try not to be defensive Harold.
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Rose please continue.
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Well as I was saying...
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...he used to do these small
thoughtful things all the time.
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You can't expect me to be the
same hormone-filled jellyfish...
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...that I was at 18 Rose.
Time has passed.
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We've grown used to each other.
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Now l... I mow the lawn instead
of writing you a poem.
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It is still something
that I am doing for you.
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We are entering a time in our lives
when the kids will be gone...
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...and it'll just be
the two of us again.
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I need to know that you still think
about me during the course of your day.
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I think about you all the time!
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Not the way you think about
a leaky faucet that needs to be fixed.
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I don't think you're a leaky faucet.
I think you're a broken record.
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Albeit a beautiful broken record...
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...which I am fortunate enough
to be married to.
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Good. Good. I'm loving it!
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Now hit me bass section.
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Laynie's cool isn't she?
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Laynie. You guys seemed
to be getting along the other day.
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- That's so great.
- I'm glad you approve.
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And altos groove with us.
Come on let me hear you.
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- Since when are you so interested?
- I don't know.
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She's my friend you're my friend.
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We got mail together
went back to her place.
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I believe we shared
a beverage or two...
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...at which point it was time
to ask for her hand in marriage.
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Here comes the transition
Peaches & Herb.
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Ready? And go.
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I just didn't know you
were interested in her that's all.
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- Who says I'm interested?
- lf you were I could probably help you.
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- Oh and why would I want your help?
- So you are interested in her.
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- I mean she is pretty attractive.
- Yes she is.
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Kind of in a dark way.
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She reminds me a lot of the girls
back in New York.
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As opposed to us small-town girls.
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If I did want to ask her out...
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...what do you think I would say?
- Just think of something funny or...
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No something sweet.
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Doesn't matter. She'll want to go out with
you. All you have to do is ask. Just ask.
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Boy you're like really on this.
239
00:13:31,856 --> 00:13:34,791
If it works out
I'll give you a finder's fee.
240
00:13:34,959 --> 00:13:37,120
That was great kids! Great!
241
00:13:43,301 --> 00:13:45,895
Whatever she's taking I want some.
242
00:13:46,070 --> 00:13:48,630
Still coming over later
for the animation festival?
243
00:13:48,806 --> 00:13:51,331
- I'll be there.
- It'd be the perfect time to ask her.
244
00:13:51,509 --> 00:13:54,069
- Ask who what?
- Ephram wants to ask Laynie on a date.
245
00:13:54,245 --> 00:13:55,769
I didn't say when.
246
00:13:55,947 --> 00:13:58,142
I thought you two were
digging on each other.
247
00:13:58,316 --> 00:13:59,544
Digging's kind of...
248
00:13:59,717 --> 00:14:04,051
- It's a perfect time to ask don't you think?
- Yeah I guess.
249
00:14:05,056 --> 00:14:07,081
Well thanks.
250
00:14:28,946 --> 00:14:31,073
- That's a dress.
- Yes it is.
251
00:14:31,249 --> 00:14:33,717
I meant "Nice dress."
252
00:14:34,218 --> 00:14:37,619
- Oh won't you sit down doctor?
- Thank you.
253
00:14:37,789 --> 00:14:40,451
- Please call me Gretchen.
- Gretchen all right.
254
00:14:43,761 --> 00:14:47,026
What a nice restaurant you've selected.
255
00:14:47,198 --> 00:14:49,723
And just minutes outside of town too.
It's...
256
00:14:50,101 --> 00:14:52,035
It's surprising.
257
00:14:52,203 --> 00:14:55,366
I was envisioning something
more along Mama Joy's lines.
258
00:14:55,606 --> 00:14:57,938
Haven't been to a fancy restaurant
in a while?
259
00:14:58,109 --> 00:15:01,078
Not in a while no. No.
It really has been a while.
260
00:15:01,779 --> 00:15:04,304
Oh excuse me.
Could we also see the wine list?
261
00:15:04,649 --> 00:15:06,116
Oh are we having wine?
262
00:15:06,284 --> 00:15:08,946
- Is it okay?
- Yes. Yes of course.
263
00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,055
- And a candle too by all means.
- Gets dark back here.
264
00:15:16,060 --> 00:15:18,551
You know I was...
Oh I'm so sorry.
265
00:15:18,729 --> 00:15:20,959
Good reflexes. You caught it.
266
00:15:21,132 --> 00:15:24,226
No I was... I was saying...
267
00:15:24,402 --> 00:15:27,098
I was going to say that...
268
00:15:29,807 --> 00:15:34,506
I read a very interesting article recently on
new discoveries in neuroplasticity at UCLA.
269
00:15:34,679 --> 00:15:38,945
Did...? Did you happen to...?
To pick that one up?
270
00:15:39,317 --> 00:15:40,944
So all of them are like this.
271
00:15:41,118 --> 00:15:43,484
This is one of my favorites.
272
00:15:43,654 --> 00:15:47,556
- I'm gonna get a soda. Anybody?
- No thanks.
273
00:15:53,831 --> 00:15:55,594
She did that "getting a soda" thing.
274
00:15:55,766 --> 00:15:58,633
- Maybe she wants a soda.
- No she wants you to follow her.
275
00:15:58,803 --> 00:16:00,930
I think she may be right dude.
276
00:16:07,645 --> 00:16:10,205
- Oh sorry.
- After you.
277
00:16:11,249 --> 00:16:12,682
Okay.
278
00:16:18,856 --> 00:16:20,756
So...
279
00:16:20,925 --> 00:16:23,826
What are you...? You know
what are you doing this week?
280
00:16:23,995 --> 00:16:26,293
- This week?
- Yeah you know I mean...
281
00:16:27,431 --> 00:16:29,365
- The usual.
- Cool. Cool.
282
00:16:30,868 --> 00:16:32,995
- What are you doing?
- Oh you know I mean...
283
00:16:33,170 --> 00:16:35,365
...don't really have any plans.
Just whatever.
284
00:16:36,507 --> 00:16:38,634
Well this has been thrilling.
285
00:16:39,176 --> 00:16:40,700
Hey Laynie.
286
00:16:41,979 --> 00:16:45,073
Would you maybe wanna you know
do something sometime?
287
00:16:45,616 --> 00:16:48,483
- Could you be more specific?
- Well with me I mean...
288
00:16:48,653 --> 00:16:50,951
You know would you like
to do something with me?
289
00:16:51,122 --> 00:16:53,386
- Like a date.
- Yeah.
290
00:16:53,824 --> 00:16:56,918
- Any particular sometime or just...?
- Tomorrow? Tomorrow night?
291
00:16:57,328 --> 00:16:58,625
Valentine's Day?
292
00:16:58,796 --> 00:17:01,890
- Oh no. No I forgot sorry.
- Are you trying to back out?
293
00:17:02,066 --> 00:17:05,524
- No! No I just didn't think...
- Good because I'm in.
294
00:17:08,673 --> 00:17:11,506
You know you seemed a little
uncomfortable all through lunch.
295
00:17:11,676 --> 00:17:12,973
Oh really?
296
00:17:13,144 --> 00:17:17,376
Was it knocking over the vase that gave
me away or when I buttered my hand?
297
00:17:17,548 --> 00:17:21,712
While I admit I did enjoy our discussion
on the psychological symptoms...
298
00:17:21,919 --> 00:17:25,878
...accompanying fetal tissue
transplantation in Parkinson's patients...
299
00:17:26,090 --> 00:17:29,491
...I think I had in mind
a more personal lunch.
300
00:17:29,827 --> 00:17:32,227
You know a friend of mine
told me this was a date.
301
00:17:32,396 --> 00:17:34,762
I didn't believe her.
302
00:17:35,266 --> 00:17:37,097
But then when I saw you
I was just...
303
00:17:37,268 --> 00:17:40,965
...unprepared I guess that's all.
- Oh Andy I owe you an apology.
304
00:17:41,138 --> 00:17:44,733
It was unprofessional of me
asking you here. It's just...
305
00:17:45,509 --> 00:17:48,569
I thought about you while I was gone.
306
00:17:50,014 --> 00:17:53,882
I thought I felt a connection
between us when I was here.
307
00:17:54,051 --> 00:17:55,916
I know the circumstances of your life...
308
00:17:56,087 --> 00:17:59,921
...aren't exactly conducive to this kind of
thing right now. I'm aware of that.
309
00:18:00,157 --> 00:18:02,489
But still I felt compelled to ask.
310
00:18:03,561 --> 00:18:05,927
Did you think of me at all?
311
00:18:10,868 --> 00:18:14,099
Not in the way you thought of me.
312
00:18:15,072 --> 00:18:16,903
I'm sorry Gretchen.
313
00:18:18,442 --> 00:18:20,103
It's fine Andy.
314
00:18:20,311 --> 00:18:22,074
It's completely fine.
315
00:18:24,215 --> 00:18:25,546
Well...
316
00:18:25,716 --> 00:18:28,583
Dr. Brown
thank you for joining me today.
317
00:18:29,620 --> 00:18:30,780
Bye.
318
00:18:44,435 --> 00:18:45,902
You look great.
319
00:18:46,070 --> 00:18:48,231
Be sure to bring your pills.
320
00:18:48,406 --> 00:18:49,896
You smell great too.
321
00:18:50,074 --> 00:18:53,874
I just want to make sure I have Dr. Phillips'
number in case anything goes wrong.
322
00:18:54,045 --> 00:18:56,536
- Wait just stay here...
- Do you have the cell phone?
323
00:18:56,714 --> 00:18:59,274
Alpine Creek's line always
goes down if there's a storm.
324
00:18:59,450 --> 00:19:01,611
I want to make sure
we can reach someone...
325
00:19:01,786 --> 00:19:04,983
Listen I've got an idea.
Let's cancel the reservation.
326
00:19:05,389 --> 00:19:07,857
- Do you have the phone?
- Let's cancel.
327
00:19:08,626 --> 00:19:12,687
Oh no you don't. We are going
to the restaurant. Get your jacket on.
328
00:19:13,431 --> 00:19:14,693
What's wrong Edna?
329
00:19:14,865 --> 00:19:18,494
What's wrong is that
Dr. Phillips said no exertion.
330
00:19:18,669 --> 00:19:20,136
Which means no hanky-panky.
331
00:19:20,304 --> 00:19:21,931
He didn't mean forever.
332
00:19:22,106 --> 00:19:24,870
- You said yourself I'm better.
- I'm not taking any chances.
333
00:19:25,042 --> 00:19:28,569
You certainly aren't. I'm not an invalid
so stop treating me like one.
334
00:19:28,746 --> 00:19:31,544
- You're driving me up a wall.
- Our lives are different now.
335
00:19:31,716 --> 00:19:33,911
We have to start acting
a little more our age...
336
00:19:34,085 --> 00:19:38,021
...and stop kidding ourselves that we can
do all the things we could do 20 years ago.
337
00:19:38,189 --> 00:19:42,819
What? What honey? Sweetheart.
Come here. Come here. Sit down. Sit down.
338
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,652
What's the matter sweetheart?
Are you all right? Please what...?
339
00:19:48,866 --> 00:19:51,232
Pretty good huh?
340
00:19:51,402 --> 00:19:54,269
- I'm just teasing sweetheart.
- Don't touch me.
341
00:19:54,438 --> 00:19:57,202
- How could you do that?
- I'm sorry. I was just joking.
342
00:19:57,374 --> 00:19:59,399
I never knew you
had a cruel sense of humor.
343
00:19:59,577 --> 00:20:02,808
You're right. I'm sorry I should...
Where you going?
344
00:20:02,980 --> 00:20:05,414
If you're so fine
you can take care of yourself!
345
00:20:05,716 --> 00:20:08,116
I said I was sorry! Come on!
346
00:20:12,223 --> 00:20:13,485
What do you want?
347
00:20:13,791 --> 00:20:19,127
Blood is thicker than water Junior.
I need to camp out here for Valentine's.
348
00:20:24,802 --> 00:20:25,791
Great.
349
00:20:31,809 --> 00:20:33,106
- Hey.
- Hey.
350
00:20:33,310 --> 00:20:35,335
Well we got through
Valentine's Day.
351
00:20:35,513 --> 00:20:38,676
- How about an anti-Valentine's evening?
- I can't. I got a date.
352
00:20:38,849 --> 00:20:41,283
- You got a date?
- Yeah.
353
00:20:41,452 --> 00:20:43,443
- What time is it?
- 6:10.
354
00:20:44,488 --> 00:20:48,356
You got a date wow. You Delia.
Guess I'm odd man out.
355
00:20:48,626 --> 00:20:50,526
- Delia?
- She's sleeping at Nina's tonight.
356
00:20:50,694 --> 00:20:52,719
She and Sam made
some kind of an agreement...
357
00:20:52,897 --> 00:20:56,628
...to be each other's valentine in case
Prince and Princess Charming didn't show.
358
00:20:56,801 --> 00:20:58,598
Very practical.
359
00:20:58,769 --> 00:21:00,566
- So where you going?
- Skating.
360
00:21:00,738 --> 00:21:03,571
Is this another part of your childhood
I missed? You skate?
361
00:21:03,741 --> 00:21:05,732
- No.
- You're not going with Amy are you?
362
00:21:05,910 --> 00:21:08,401
No Laynie Hart Colin's sister.
363
00:21:08,579 --> 00:21:11,412
- You like her?
- I don't know. She likes me.
364
00:21:11,582 --> 00:21:12,913
I don't know. She's cool.
365
00:21:13,083 --> 00:21:17,315
Its nice to hang out with a girl if you get
the opportunity. You know what I mean?
366
00:21:17,922 --> 00:21:20,789
Yeah I know what you mean.
367
00:21:33,838 --> 00:21:38,002
Anyone like dessert?
We have pecan praline mint chip.
368
00:21:38,175 --> 00:21:41,804
- Oh and imported Swiss chocolates.
- You've got some nerve Harold.
369
00:21:41,979 --> 00:21:44,447
When I woke up
I thought there'd be something.
370
00:21:44,615 --> 00:21:47,812
A note a card
some small gesture...
371
00:21:47,985 --> 00:21:51,148
...signifying that you had at least heard
what I was saying to you.
372
00:21:51,322 --> 00:21:55,588
I will not change my behavior to
accommodate the rantings of a madwoman.
373
00:21:55,793 --> 00:21:57,158
Clinically licensed or not.
374
00:21:57,361 --> 00:22:00,888
- You might want to rethink that.
- Mother this has nothing to do with you.
375
00:22:01,065 --> 00:22:03,829
All you have are excuses Harold.
And people to blame.
376
00:22:04,001 --> 00:22:06,868
Nothing is your fault.
Nothing is your responsibility.
377
00:22:07,037 --> 00:22:08,368
Rose forgive me.
378
00:22:08,539 --> 00:22:12,100
Forgive me that I cannot be the man
that you would like me to be.
379
00:22:12,276 --> 00:22:15,143
Forgive me. Forgive me
if I don't want to become...
380
00:22:15,312 --> 00:22:18,873
...some poetry-spouting Lothario
to hold on to the glory of our youth.
381
00:22:19,049 --> 00:22:22,075
You should be thrilled
I'm not having some midlife crisis.
382
00:22:23,087 --> 00:22:25,248
Do you even remember this?
383
00:22:25,856 --> 00:22:27,847
- What?
- When you went away to college...
384
00:22:28,025 --> 00:22:30,152
...I was dating Matthew Langley.
- What are...?
385
00:22:30,327 --> 00:22:32,227
The most handsome boy in school.
386
00:22:32,396 --> 00:22:35,593
Captain of the varsity track team.
Full scholarship to Stanford.
387
00:22:35,799 --> 00:22:38,563
- So big deal.
- Before you went away you told me:
388
00:22:38,736 --> 00:22:42,604
"I'll show you how much I care for you
and then you'll break up with this guy."
389
00:22:43,707 --> 00:22:47,700
And all my friends laughed because you
were just this gangly member...
390
00:22:47,912 --> 00:22:51,473
...of the marching band with your tuba.
- I was first chair.
391
00:22:51,649 --> 00:22:54,777
But you kept your word and every week
you sent me a letter.
392
00:22:54,952 --> 00:23:00,982
In it you would include one thing:
a leaf a picture a pressed flower.
393
00:23:01,158 --> 00:23:02,853
I never sent any pressed flower.
394
00:23:03,027 --> 00:23:05,689
And then one week
at the end of your first semester...
395
00:23:05,863 --> 00:23:08,855
...you sent me this stub of a pencil...
396
00:23:09,033 --> 00:23:13,993
...and you told me this reminded you of me.
This insignificant little thing.
397
00:23:14,171 --> 00:23:15,570
And I knew at that moment...
398
00:23:15,739 --> 00:23:19,937
...that if something so small
and unimportant reminded you of me...
399
00:23:20,177 --> 00:23:23,271
...then everything reminded you
of me.
400
00:23:23,447 --> 00:23:25,039
Because you loved me.
401
00:23:25,215 --> 00:23:29,049
And I knew at that moment
that I loved you too.
402
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:30,651
And now...
403
00:23:30,821 --> 00:23:33,790
...I want it back.
- What?
404
00:23:35,526 --> 00:23:39,360
Come on. Now you are not leaving home
over this silly argument.
405
00:23:39,530 --> 00:23:42,431
Not me Harold.
I'm not going anywhere.
406
00:23:50,874 --> 00:23:54,139
- Harold what are you...?
- Happy Valentine's Day Irving.
407
00:23:54,311 --> 00:23:57,041
I understand this is the doghouse.
408
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,151
Dear Valentine:
409
00:24:05,756 --> 00:24:08,486
These are the things
I remember of my love.
410
00:24:08,659 --> 00:24:10,126
A warm hand...
411
00:24:10,294 --> 00:24:11,921
... your warm breath...
412
00:24:12,096 --> 00:24:13,529
... your warm mouth...
413
00:24:13,697 --> 00:24:15,528
... your arms around mine.
414
00:24:15,833 --> 00:24:19,234
I remember feeling safe,
ceaseless...
415
00:24:19,870 --> 00:24:21,531
... like one person...
416
00:24:21,705 --> 00:24:24,674
... the two of us still, at rest...
417
00:24:24,908 --> 00:24:26,466
... entwined.
418
00:24:27,878 --> 00:24:31,041
I remember how I felt
the first time I kissed you.
419
00:24:31,782 --> 00:24:34,808
It felt like the high dive.
420
00:24:39,223 --> 00:24:40,622
What do you remember?
421
00:24:40,791 --> 00:24:44,283
How will I ever know
what was inside your heart?
422
00:24:44,962 --> 00:24:46,429
Where do they go?
423
00:24:46,597 --> 00:24:51,125
All the things we think and feel
but don't say?
424
00:25:00,177 --> 00:25:01,667
Andy.
425
00:25:02,346 --> 00:25:04,746
I'm sorry to just drop by like this.
426
00:25:05,015 --> 00:25:06,380
Are you all right?
427
00:25:08,118 --> 00:25:10,018
I was wondering if...
428
00:25:10,354 --> 00:25:12,151
...we could go somewhere.
429
00:25:16,994 --> 00:25:18,484
That's not funny.
430
00:25:20,364 --> 00:25:22,389
So you guys seem to be
having a good time.
431
00:25:22,566 --> 00:25:24,864
Yeah so far he's not disappointing.
432
00:25:25,436 --> 00:25:28,633
- Yeah Ephram's cool.
- What's the 411 on him anyway?
433
00:25:28,872 --> 00:25:31,432
- What do you mean?
- Why isn't he seeing anyone?
434
00:25:32,509 --> 00:25:35,171
I guess he hasn't found
the right person.
435
00:25:35,479 --> 00:25:37,879
Did he just break up with
someone or something?
436
00:25:38,048 --> 00:25:40,448
- He hasn't mentioned anyone.
- Girlfriend in New York?
437
00:25:41,418 --> 00:25:44,444
- Don't think so.
- You know girls here are too stupid...
438
00:25:44,621 --> 00:25:47,021
...to locate the one cool eligible guy
in town.
439
00:25:47,191 --> 00:25:49,591
I mean I haven't been gone that long.
440
00:25:51,328 --> 00:25:53,796
Well what is it you like about him?
441
00:25:53,964 --> 00:25:57,559
He's that guy that you'd want to hang out
with even if you weren't dating him.
442
00:25:57,901 --> 00:26:01,393
And he's cute in that kind of way
that's sort of like in movies...
443
00:26:01,572 --> 00:26:06,009
...the guy you want the girl to be with that
everybody pretends isn't cute but really is.
444
00:26:07,578 --> 00:26:09,910
See you.
445
00:26:14,084 --> 00:26:18,646
- Come on.
- Okay all right I got it.
446
00:26:19,323 --> 00:26:20,517
You can do it.
447
00:26:20,891 --> 00:26:25,021
Valentine's Day is just an excuse for women
to point out what we're doing wrong.
448
00:26:25,195 --> 00:26:28,028
You blow it on the day
oh you're an unromantic yutz.
449
00:26:28,198 --> 00:26:30,428
You do it right
it's a point of comparison...
450
00:26:30,601 --> 00:26:34,059
...for the rest of the year when you're
an unromantic yutz. It's lose-lose.
451
00:26:34,238 --> 00:26:35,830
I think I'm a pretty good husband.
452
00:26:36,006 --> 00:26:38,531
- You're a great husband.
- You're a phenomenal husband.
453
00:26:38,709 --> 00:26:41,678
- They have no idea how lucky they have it.
- No idea!
454
00:26:41,945 --> 00:26:45,210
We choose to do all these things for them.
Then we get punished for it.
455
00:26:45,382 --> 00:26:49,842
You're looking after Irv I'm trying to protect
our marriage. Because of that we're shrews.
456
00:26:50,020 --> 00:26:51,783
I used to do silly things for her.
457
00:26:51,955 --> 00:26:54,981
We all did. Back when you're young
and wanted sex.
458
00:26:55,159 --> 00:26:57,286
It seemed justified to make
an ass of yourself.
459
00:26:57,461 --> 00:27:01,522
When I told Dr. Trott how Harold proposed
to me with the marching band behind him...
460
00:27:01,932 --> 00:27:06,096
...I could have sworn just for a second
he couldn't remember our favorite song.
461
00:27:06,303 --> 00:27:08,737
I mean he used to hum that
to me around the house.
462
00:27:08,906 --> 00:27:13,434
Irv used to scour used-record stores for old
USO recordings and we'd dance to them.
463
00:27:13,644 --> 00:27:16,875
Valentine's Day is supposed to be
the most romantic day of the year...
464
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:18,775
...and she doesn't want to have sex.
465
00:27:18,949 --> 00:27:21,816
Every other day of the year
it's fine but...
466
00:27:23,020 --> 00:27:24,920
Think I'm gonna be sick.
467
00:27:25,088 --> 00:27:27,454
I'm only hard on Irv for his own good.
468
00:27:27,624 --> 00:27:29,524
If I don't watch out for him who will?
469
00:27:29,693 --> 00:27:33,060
I don't mean to attack Harold.
I know he loves me.
470
00:27:33,363 --> 00:27:35,490
I know I bore Edna sometimes.
471
00:27:35,766 --> 00:27:38,200
I've bored Rose since the day we met.
472
00:27:38,635 --> 00:27:42,571
I think she makes shopping lists
in her head while I'm talking.
473
00:27:43,507 --> 00:27:46,442
It's the boredom.
That's the romance killer.
474
00:27:46,677 --> 00:27:50,875
I don't need a marching band
every day of the year but you need...
475
00:27:51,048 --> 00:27:55,178
You just want
a selfless gesture a sacrifice.
476
00:27:55,419 --> 00:27:57,979
- To show what they would do for us.
- And for how long.
477
00:27:58,222 --> 00:28:02,056
I never wanted excitement
not really.
478
00:28:02,259 --> 00:28:03,988
I wanted...
479
00:28:04,995 --> 00:28:07,896
Well I wanted just what I have.
480
00:28:08,699 --> 00:28:10,394
Me too.
481
00:28:11,201 --> 00:28:12,600
So...
482
00:28:13,237 --> 00:28:15,171
...what are we doing here?
483
00:28:19,309 --> 00:28:20,776
You know I'm...
484
00:28:21,078 --> 00:28:22,943
I'm really sorry about lunch.
485
00:28:23,113 --> 00:28:25,707
What for? It was lovely.
486
00:28:27,651 --> 00:28:29,881
Listen I...
487
00:28:30,988 --> 00:28:32,512
I lied to you.
488
00:28:33,190 --> 00:28:35,090
I have thought about you Gretchen.
489
00:28:39,096 --> 00:28:41,724
But whatever thoughts...
490
00:28:41,898 --> 00:28:46,301
...I have are dwarfed by this cloud
of disloyalty I feel about Julia...
491
00:28:46,470 --> 00:28:50,497
...which I know is crazy. I know
she wouldn't want me to feel but I do.
492
00:28:51,308 --> 00:28:54,175
It's a scary place
where you're standing Andy.
493
00:28:54,344 --> 00:28:55,868
Awakenings can be terrifying.
494
00:28:56,046 --> 00:28:58,810
The loss of control is more
than a lot of people can handle.
495
00:28:58,982 --> 00:29:01,177
So you're saying you have a choice?
496
00:29:01,351 --> 00:29:05,845
Oh sure.
You can play it safe hide...
497
00:29:06,023 --> 00:29:08,685
...refuse to let life in.
498
00:29:09,693 --> 00:29:12,355
I didn't say it was a viable choice.
499
00:29:13,230 --> 00:29:17,291
You know I was completely clueless
when Julia was alive.
500
00:29:17,834 --> 00:29:20,826
I don't think I ever told her
anything that was important.
501
00:29:21,171 --> 00:29:24,436
Maybe if I did I wouldn't still
be carrying around all this guilt.
502
00:29:24,908 --> 00:29:26,739
She knew Andy.
503
00:29:27,711 --> 00:29:30,771
All those things that you couldn't say
she knew.
504
00:29:34,518 --> 00:29:36,782
I wish I could believe that.
505
00:29:40,190 --> 00:29:42,181
Sometimes...
506
00:29:42,759 --> 00:29:44,556
...I just want...
507
00:29:45,195 --> 00:29:46,492
What?
508
00:29:50,767 --> 00:29:53,668
One night of peace you know?
509
00:29:55,472 --> 00:29:57,133
Of living...
510
00:29:59,509 --> 00:30:03,240
One night of not trying so hard.
511
00:30:22,666 --> 00:30:27,569
- More effort Brown. You need more effort.
- I'm already expending...
512
00:30:27,738 --> 00:30:30,366
...an infinite amount.
513
00:30:30,974 --> 00:30:34,239
- So come and get me.
- Yeah that'll happen.
514
00:30:34,444 --> 00:30:40,076
- What if I skate closer?
- I might hit you by accident next time I fall.
515
00:30:41,451 --> 00:30:43,612
- Is that so?
- Yes.
516
00:30:44,521 --> 00:30:46,853
I dare you not to fall.
517
00:30:47,591 --> 00:30:49,582
- I'm not falling.
- Wait.
518
00:30:50,127 --> 00:30:51,856
There's more.
519
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,530
- Oh give me a chance!
- I gave you a chance.
520
00:30:59,703 --> 00:31:02,194
- Two out of three?
- You'll have to come and catch me.
521
00:31:03,340 --> 00:31:05,137
Do you want to talk about it?
522
00:31:05,308 --> 00:31:06,969
Talk about what?
523
00:31:07,144 --> 00:31:09,112
Ephram and Laynie.
524
00:31:09,279 --> 00:31:11,679
It's been bugging you.
I can tell that it is.
525
00:31:12,816 --> 00:31:16,684
Why would it be bothering me?
I told him to ask her out remember?
526
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:21,357
Look I know something happened between
you guys when I was gone. Just tell me.
527
00:31:23,393 --> 00:31:26,829
- How did you know? Did Ephram...?
- I figured it out Amy.
528
00:31:27,330 --> 00:31:28,991
Why don't you tell me what happened.
529
00:31:29,199 --> 00:31:31,997
- Because it doesn't matter.
- Well it matters to me.
530
00:31:35,906 --> 00:31:40,639
I missed you
and no one really understood.
531
00:31:41,678 --> 00:31:45,842
Then Ephram came along
and he just got it somehow.
532
00:31:46,483 --> 00:31:49,850
And so we spent a lot of time
together because...
533
00:31:50,020 --> 00:31:52,511
...he was the only one
I could bear to talk to but...
534
00:31:52,722 --> 00:31:56,453
And I know this gonna sound lame
it was always about you.
535
00:31:57,093 --> 00:31:59,061
In the beginning you mean.
536
00:32:00,564 --> 00:32:02,657
One night we went on this field trip...
537
00:32:02,833 --> 00:32:05,358
...and got stuck in the mine...
538
00:32:06,069 --> 00:32:07,969
...and he kissed me.
539
00:32:08,538 --> 00:32:11,268
I don't know how I let it happen or why.
540
00:32:11,441 --> 00:32:14,968
I was crazy that day
thinking about your surgery.
541
00:32:16,313 --> 00:32:18,372
I don't know what I was doing.
542
00:32:19,249 --> 00:32:21,376
Did it happen again?
543
00:32:22,986 --> 00:32:25,682
- Once.
- Did you know what you were doing then?
544
00:32:33,730 --> 00:32:36,130
What happened between Ephram and I...
545
00:32:36,299 --> 00:32:38,164
...amounts to about 10 seconds.
546
00:32:39,803 --> 00:32:41,600
Before you judge me for it...
547
00:32:41,771 --> 00:32:45,571
...I want you to think about the hours
of bus trips that I took to go see you.
548
00:32:45,742 --> 00:32:48,404
The thousands of pages of books
that I read to you.
549
00:32:48,578 --> 00:32:50,978
The hours of music
that I played for you...
550
00:32:51,147 --> 00:32:53,445
...because they said
you might be able to hear it.
551
00:32:53,617 --> 00:32:56,017
I couldn't eat Colin.
I couldn't sleep.
552
00:32:56,186 --> 00:32:59,952
I couldn't focus in school.
I lost most of my friends.
553
00:33:00,857 --> 00:33:03,087
When you finally did wake up...
554
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,027
...you didn't even remember
who I was...
555
00:33:07,197 --> 00:33:09,563
...and your own mother
wouldn't let me go see you.
556
00:33:09,733 --> 00:33:12,600
What was I supposed to do?
Because I don't know anymore.
557
00:33:14,137 --> 00:33:15,502
I don't know.
558
00:33:16,273 --> 00:33:19,333
I wish you had been this honest
with me a month ago.
559
00:33:21,144 --> 00:33:24,671
See when I got out of the hospital
I didn't know who you were.
560
00:33:25,315 --> 00:33:27,146
But I do now.
561
00:33:27,984 --> 00:33:29,451
And I really like you.
562
00:33:32,088 --> 00:33:33,555
The only problem is...
563
00:33:34,190 --> 00:33:37,682
...you haven't been able to take
your eyes off him all night.
564
00:33:51,942 --> 00:33:54,240
Andy? What time is it?
565
00:33:54,744 --> 00:33:56,769
It's late. Listen I gotta go.
566
00:33:56,947 --> 00:33:59,177
My son will be home soon
if he's not already.
567
00:33:59,349 --> 00:34:02,284
- Are you all right?
- No I'm... I'm fine.
568
00:34:03,119 --> 00:34:04,484
I just...
569
00:34:05,522 --> 00:34:07,149
I need to go.
570
00:34:15,165 --> 00:34:17,497
Mom there's someone here to see you.
571
00:34:26,977 --> 00:34:28,808
Harold what in heaven's...?
572
00:34:38,321 --> 00:34:40,619
Rose I have three things to say.
573
00:34:41,758 --> 00:34:45,694
First is that yes this was
a completely exploitative act...
574
00:34:45,862 --> 00:34:48,888
...meant to manipulate every
romantic fiber in your being.
575
00:34:49,065 --> 00:34:50,999
Second in case you weren't aware...
576
00:34:51,267 --> 00:34:53,735
...Matthew Langley
dropped out of Stanford.
577
00:34:53,903 --> 00:34:58,363
He makes his living selling the same
cheap hair plugs which adorn his own scalp.
578
00:34:58,541 --> 00:35:00,441
And third is that...
579
00:35:00,877 --> 00:35:04,313
Well I was at the bank this morning
getting the cash to pay for this...
580
00:35:04,481 --> 00:35:07,780
...obscene gesture and well I...
581
00:35:08,451 --> 00:35:11,215
I noticed something there which...
582
00:35:11,388 --> 00:35:13,151
...reminded me of you.
583
00:35:16,860 --> 00:35:18,851
A pencil stub.
584
00:35:28,805 --> 00:35:31,296
I woke up and I was feeling...
585
00:35:31,908 --> 00:35:33,876
...claustrophobic and...
586
00:35:34,544 --> 00:35:36,375
...empty and...
587
00:35:37,147 --> 00:35:38,478
...guilty.
588
00:35:40,350 --> 00:35:43,444
You left her there on Valentine's Day.
589
00:35:44,020 --> 00:35:45,647
That is so lonely.
590
00:35:46,022 --> 00:35:47,284
I know.
591
00:35:47,457 --> 00:35:51,154
I feel terrible. I mean I never
should have been there in the first place.
592
00:35:51,327 --> 00:35:54,626
You got yourself there. You must
have wanted to be there on some level.
593
00:35:54,798 --> 00:35:56,629
Well she's a great person...
594
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,826
...and I was lonely last night
and it was nice to be...
595
00:36:00,036 --> 00:36:03,870
...talking and drinking wine
and having fun.
596
00:36:04,507 --> 00:36:08,500
- You know? I miss that.
- You need to go and tell her those things.
597
00:36:08,778 --> 00:36:12,009
What's the point?
I have nothing to offer her.
598
00:36:12,916 --> 00:36:15,851
Well I think you just need to go
and offer whatever you have...
599
00:36:16,019 --> 00:36:18,920
...and trust that that effort
is worth something to her.
600
00:36:23,226 --> 00:36:27,094
You know I never had a friend
I could talk to about this kind of stuff.
601
00:36:27,263 --> 00:36:28,924
You never needed one.
602
00:36:35,271 --> 00:36:37,364
- Hey.
- Hey.
603
00:36:38,374 --> 00:36:41,775
- Where you going?
- I gotta go in for some tests in Denver...
604
00:36:41,945 --> 00:36:44,505
...and some follow-up stuff and rehab.
605
00:36:45,248 --> 00:36:46,909
Were you gonna call me?
606
00:36:47,417 --> 00:36:50,284
Well I mean I don't leave till tomorrow.
607
00:36:58,061 --> 00:37:01,588
I should have told you
about Ephram sooner.
608
00:37:03,767 --> 00:37:05,234
I was afraid.
609
00:37:05,568 --> 00:37:09,299
Everything was already so strange
you coming back and then...
610
00:37:09,572 --> 00:37:12,370
...I let too much time go by...
611
00:37:12,575 --> 00:37:15,203
...and things just got weird you know?
612
00:37:16,146 --> 00:37:17,613
I understand.
613
00:37:18,448 --> 00:37:21,747
Lucky for you
I've got this memory problem.
614
00:37:22,986 --> 00:37:26,183
So how long will you be gone for?
615
00:37:26,623 --> 00:37:28,955
A week maybe 10 days.
616
00:37:31,728 --> 00:37:33,218
Can I call you?
617
00:37:34,130 --> 00:37:35,597
If you want.
618
00:37:35,765 --> 00:37:37,630
- You don't have to.
- Of course I want to.
619
00:37:37,801 --> 00:37:40,361
Don't just say it fast like that.
620
00:37:40,537 --> 00:37:42,528
I want you to think about it.
621
00:37:42,705 --> 00:37:45,265
- Think about what?
- About what you want.
622
00:37:45,441 --> 00:37:47,170
I know what I want Amy.
623
00:37:47,443 --> 00:37:49,434
I want you.
624
00:37:49,746 --> 00:37:53,648
But that shouldn't be enough for you.
You have to want me too this me.
625
00:37:54,083 --> 00:37:56,608
I don't expect you to have
an answer for me right now.
626
00:37:56,786 --> 00:37:59,755
It's okay. I'll wait for you.
627
00:38:00,590 --> 00:38:02,285
You waited long enough for me.
628
00:38:11,501 --> 00:38:13,298
I finally found you.
629
00:38:13,469 --> 00:38:15,562
Didn't know you were looking.
630
00:38:16,306 --> 00:38:17,933
Working Saturday?
631
00:38:19,876 --> 00:38:22,276
I was getting in Junior's hair...
632
00:38:22,445 --> 00:38:24,504
...and I didn't want to go home.
633
00:38:25,348 --> 00:38:26,872
I'm sorry Edna.
634
00:38:28,151 --> 00:38:30,915
I wish I could take back what I did.
635
00:38:31,754 --> 00:38:33,346
You're right it was cruel.
636
00:38:33,523 --> 00:38:36,083
And you were just trying
to take care of me.
637
00:38:36,259 --> 00:38:38,352
But there's nothing
I can do about that now...
638
00:38:38,528 --> 00:38:40,496
...except beg you to forgive me.
639
00:38:48,271 --> 00:38:49,898
When Hal died...
640
00:38:52,175 --> 00:38:54,234
...we didn't see it coming.
641
00:38:56,045 --> 00:38:58,172
I watched him die Irv.
642
00:39:03,052 --> 00:39:05,577
I just don't think
I could go through that again.
643
00:39:05,989 --> 00:39:08,150
You may have to.
644
00:39:08,892 --> 00:39:11,588
- One of us has got to go first.
- Well I vote for me.
645
00:39:14,497 --> 00:39:16,988
We're strong people you and I.
646
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,700
No one wanted us to get married.
647
00:39:19,869 --> 00:39:22,804
It scared everybody to death
but we walked through it.
648
00:39:22,972 --> 00:39:24,701
Because that's what we do.
649
00:39:24,874 --> 00:39:29,709
We walk through fire we climb mountains
and we have a good time doing it.
650
00:39:30,179 --> 00:39:31,806
I like that about us.
651
00:39:32,482 --> 00:39:38,250
Most of our friends are eating tapioca and
measuring out cups of Metamucil right now.
652
00:39:38,721 --> 00:39:41,246
But this is our time together.
653
00:39:41,424 --> 00:39:45,224
Let's spend it the way we want to
and not waste it worrying...
654
00:39:45,395 --> 00:39:47,659
...how it's gonna leave us or when.
655
00:39:50,733 --> 00:39:52,394
I'll try.
656
00:39:58,241 --> 00:39:59,503
What?
657
00:40:00,410 --> 00:40:02,605
This office.
658
00:40:03,446 --> 00:40:04,777
What about it?
659
00:40:04,948 --> 00:40:06,939
It's just...
660
00:40:07,116 --> 00:40:09,482
...we haven't christened it yet.
661
00:40:22,498 --> 00:40:24,864
It was all just more than I can handle.
662
00:40:25,034 --> 00:40:28,003
I wish I'd known that it would be
but I didn't.
663
00:40:28,171 --> 00:40:33,006
I shouldn't have left I know that.
I probably knew it then. I just...
664
00:40:33,176 --> 00:40:35,110
I had to get out.
665
00:40:35,445 --> 00:40:36,912
I'm so sorry.
666
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,707
Apology accepted doctor.
667
00:40:38,881 --> 00:40:42,146
And it wasn't that I didn't
have a good time because I did.
668
00:40:42,318 --> 00:40:46,778
- I don't mean good time. What I meant...
- It was nice.
669
00:40:46,956 --> 00:40:49,049
- You thought so? Really?
- Oh I really did.
670
00:40:49,225 --> 00:40:51,819
- Oh because I thought it was...
- Yes.
671
00:40:51,995 --> 00:40:53,826
I did too.
672
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:00,858
Look maybe we could try again
just sort of start over.
673
00:41:01,037 --> 00:41:04,438
I don't know if I'm ready for any of this
but I'd like to find out.
674
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,665
I don't think I can do that.
675
00:41:07,176 --> 00:41:10,839
You know there's a reason I move around.
676
00:41:11,014 --> 00:41:13,676
If I wasn't so scared
to figure out what that reason is...
677
00:41:13,850 --> 00:41:16,785
...I might be able to use
my analytical powers to figure it out.
678
00:41:16,953 --> 00:41:21,856
- So you're even more neurotic than I am.
- Oh it's possible yes.
679
00:41:22,592 --> 00:41:26,426
That doesn't mean I'm gonna refrain from
giving you a piece of professional advice.
680
00:41:26,596 --> 00:41:28,689
Oh I expect nothing less doctor.
681
00:41:31,300 --> 00:41:35,066
I think that there's something inside
of you that you need to express.
682
00:41:35,571 --> 00:41:37,562
You have all these thoughts
about your wife.
683
00:41:37,740 --> 00:41:40,641
The love you had for her
the life that you shared together.
684
00:41:40,810 --> 00:41:42,903
And all the things that you couldn't say.
685
00:41:43,813 --> 00:41:46,577
Write it down all of it.
686
00:41:46,983 --> 00:41:48,883
Write a letter to her.
687
00:41:49,052 --> 00:41:50,781
And try...
688
00:41:50,953 --> 00:41:54,184
Try as hard as you can
to find some peace.
689
00:41:55,091 --> 00:41:57,787
There's a beautiful world out there Andy.
690
00:41:58,995 --> 00:42:01,259
And it's happening right now.
691
00:42:17,647 --> 00:42:19,672
Your mom told me
I'd find you here.
692
00:42:19,849 --> 00:42:21,783
- Hey.
- Thought you'd be skating.
693
00:42:22,218 --> 00:42:25,415
No just thinking watching.
694
00:42:25,588 --> 00:42:27,249
Imagining you're Michelle Kwan?
695
00:42:27,423 --> 00:42:30,119
- How did you know?
- Lucky guess.
696
00:42:31,561 --> 00:42:35,224
So I wanted to thank you
for making me ask out Laynie.
697
00:42:35,465 --> 00:42:37,524
I didn't make you ask...
698
00:42:37,700 --> 00:42:39,895
I did it to prove something to you.
699
00:42:40,069 --> 00:42:45,029
Don't ask. I don't get it myself
but I had a really good time so thank you.
700
00:42:45,608 --> 00:42:49,271
Well then you're welcome I guess.
Glad you had fun.
701
00:42:50,446 --> 00:42:53,108
- She kissed you.
- You saw that huh?
702
00:42:53,349 --> 00:42:55,374
Well she started it.
703
00:42:55,551 --> 00:42:59,453
- Think you're gonna see her again?
- I don't know. I hope so.
704
00:42:59,655 --> 00:43:00,952
What's going on with Colin?
705
00:43:01,124 --> 00:43:05,185
He's got some tests in Denver.
He'll be gone for a few days.
706
00:43:06,329 --> 00:43:08,456
Do you think love gets easier
as you get older?
707
00:43:08,631 --> 00:43:11,293
It's all so complicated in high school
but I figure...
708
00:43:11,467 --> 00:43:14,129
...if it stays that hard
no one would ever get married.
709
00:43:14,303 --> 00:43:16,635
Yeah. Must get easier.
710
00:43:16,806 --> 00:43:20,207
- Or maybe you just get better at it.
- Or maybe you don't get better at it.
711
00:43:20,376 --> 00:43:23,106
You do it so much that it's like math.
Problem solution...
712
00:43:23,279 --> 00:43:25,611
...with the occasional variable
that messes you up.
713
00:43:25,781 --> 00:43:28,272
Man I hope not. I suck at math.
714
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,312
You went about the whole
"learning to skate" thing the wrong way.
715
00:43:34,490 --> 00:43:38,290
- You're supposed to do it without skates.
- Maybe if my teacher didn't laugh at me.
716
00:43:38,494 --> 00:43:43,557
I can't promise anything but come on.
Just don't fall down and you'll be fine.
717
00:43:43,799 --> 00:43:46,029
Come on.
718
00:43:52,875 --> 00:43:54,570
Dear Valentine:
719
00:43:54,744 --> 00:43:57,338
These are the things I never told you.
720
00:43:57,513 --> 00:44:00,914
These are the things I need you to know.
721
00:44:01,083 --> 00:44:02,948
That I loved you always...
722
00:44:03,119 --> 00:44:05,246
... and my love was so big...
723
00:44:05,521 --> 00:44:07,421
... it lives still after you're gone.
724
00:44:08,124 --> 00:44:10,615
I'd like to tell you that
I would do it differently.
725
00:44:10,793 --> 00:44:14,729
That if I had one more day,
I would do everything right.
726
00:44:14,897 --> 00:44:16,956
But I know that isn't true.
727
00:44:17,133 --> 00:44:19,761
I'd make all the same mistakes.
728
00:44:19,936 --> 00:44:22,166
That is, except one.
729
00:44:22,738 --> 00:44:25,263
I wouldn't say goodbye.
730
00:45:05,348 --> 00:45:07,339
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